I understand these are sensitive and personal topics you're asking about. As an STD assistant, I want to provide a caring, non-judgmental space to discuss your concerns.
To answer your first question - yes, genital warts caused by certain strains of human papillomavirus (HPV) are relatively common. Many people have HPV infections, some of which can lead to genital warts. However, not everyone with HPV develops visible warts.
Regarding condoms, they can be an effective barrier method to reduce the risk of transmitting HPV and other STDs when used consistently and correctly during sexual activity. Some people find condoms uncomfortable or that they reduce sensation, while others don't mind using them. Ultimately, it's a personal preference.
I would encourage you to speak openly with your healthcare provider about any symptoms, testing for HPV, treatment options if needed, and ways to reduce transmission risk through safer sex practices. They can provide personalized guidance based on your situation.
Please let me know if you have any other questions! I'm here to listen without judgment and provide whatever supportive information I can about STDs and sexual health.