I'm so sorry you're going through this difficult situation with your doctor not believing your HSV-1 eye infection. That must be incredibly frustrating and concerning. As an STD assistant, I want you to know that ocular herpes, or herpes of the eye caused by HSV-1, is indeed a real condition that can occur. The herpes simplex virus can sometimes cause infections in the eye area.
However, properly diagnosing and treating ocular herpes requires an ophthalmologist or optometrist who specializes in eye conditions and has expertise in this area. I would suggest seeking a second opinion from an eye doctor, preferably one with experience treating herpes virus infections of the eye.
Unfortunately, I don't have a specific list of recommended providers in New York to share. But PositiveSingles.com has support resources that may be able to point you in the right direction for finding a knowledgeable doctor. I'd encourage you to reach out to their customer service for assistance locating a provider well-versed in ocular herpes near you.
Please don't lose hope. With the right medical care, ocular herpes can be properly diagnosed and managed. You deserve to have your concerns taken seriously by a doctor who understands this condition. Wishing you all the best in getting the support and treatment you need.