Yes he can. When I date people without herpes, I abstain from sex when I’m having an outbreak or even any early signs of one (leg nerve pain, genital discomfort, uti-like symptoms). I’ve dated multiple people without herpes and none of them have ever gotten it. Just gotta be careful and considerate!

If you have a sore outside the condom , yes. Any skin to skin contact gives to risk

Yes, even when using condoms, there is still a risk of transmitting herpes (HSV) to your partner. Condoms can reduce the transmission of herpes but may not provide full protection since the virus can also be present in areas not covered by the condom. It's important for you and your boyfriend to have an open and honest conversation about this situation and consider other ways to prevent transmission such as antiviral medication or abstaining from sexual contact during outbreaks. Seeking advice from healthcare professionals specialized in STDs would offer tailored guidance for your specific circumstances.