It is generally safe to kiss your partner when you have a genital herpes outbreak since the virus primarily spreads through skin-to-skin contact in the affected area. However, if there are sores present on or around your mouth (oral herpes) and being cautious about oral-genital transmission, it's advisable to avoid kissing during active outbreaks until they heal to reduce any risk of spreading the infection.

Always communicate openly with your partner about managing risks associated with herpes infections for both partners' well-being. If unsure or concerned, consulting healthcare professionals can provide specific guidance tailored to individual circumstances while maintaining open communication within relationships.