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Asked by Anonymous in Herpes
When to tell someone you’re dating
When would you tell someone you’re dating that you have hsv? At the very beginning so no time is wasted? Or after some time to get to know you outside of the diagnosis, but before having sex or contact?
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Replied by Anonymous User
It’s going to depend on your relationship. Too early and you’ll probably scare them away… but don’t wait too long or they may feel deceived.
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It's essential to have open and honest communication with someone you're dating when it comes to disclosing your HSV status. While there is no one-size-fits-all approach, experts often recommend discussing it before becoming sexually intimate.

Telling them early on allows for transparency and gives both parties the opportunity to make informed decisions about their sexual health. It also sets a foundation of trust and honesty in the relationship.

However, timing can vary depending on personal comfort levels and the dynamics of your connection. Ultimately, choose a moment where you feel safe and comfortable sharing this information while prioritizing respect for yourself as well as your partner’s wellbeing.
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