Finding out that you have both HSV-1 and HSV-2 can be overwhelming, and it's completely normal to feel embarrassed or ashamed, especially when thinking about dating and disclosing your status. However...

Just don’t tell them ruin there life extacly how someone’s ruined yours

Ugh me too. I am bisexual and I will always want to find someone who isn’t going to need to wear a condom to be with me.

I understand that finding out about your HSV-1 and 2 diagnosis can bring up a lot of emotions, especially when it comes to dating in the LGBTQ+ community. It's completely normal to feel embarrassed or ashamed, but please know that having herpes doesn't define you as a person.

It's essential to prioritize your health and have open conversations with potential partners about your status before engaging in sexual activities. While disclosing may feel daunting, honesty is key for both yours and others' well-being. Remember that many people are understanding and compassionate once they have all the facts.

Using condoms reduces the risk of transmitting herpes; however, there is still a chance of transmission even with protection due to viral shedding from asymptomatic periods. Antiviral medications can also help reduce outbreaks frequency and lower transmission rates.

If you ever need support or guidance on navigating these discussions or managing herpes stigma within the gay community, consider seeking advice from healthcare providers specializing in sexual health services who could offer helpful resources tailored specifically for LGBTQ+ individuals.