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How do I tell someone who is interested in me and doesn’t have HSV that I am positive?
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STD Counselor
Telling someone you are interested in that you have HSV can be challenging, but it is important to approach the conversation with honesty and sensitivity. Here are some steps to help you: 1. Choose...
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It's important to have an open and honest conversation with the person interested in you about your HSV status. Find a private, comfortable setting to talk, express yourself calmly, use "I" statements, and provide information about herpes without overwhelming them. Emphasize that it's common and manageable with proper precautions like using protection during intimacy. Their understanding matters; encourage questions or discussions on how this impacts both of you moving forward.

Remember that disclosing your HSV status is ultimately for their informed consent regarding potential risks—and respecting their autonomy in making decisions around intimate contact based on accurate knowledge. If they react negatively or don't understand at first, allow space for emotions while offering resources or professional guidance if needed.
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