I don’t think I will ever be okay with having herpes I feel disgusting I feel dirty and like my life is over I want to date but I can only date someone who has herpes but I don’t even want my own herpes and just because I have herpes I still don’t someone who has it because I’m still just disgusted in the fact I can’t only have somebody who’s infected just like me sometimes I think what’s the point anymore I can’t handle this mentally
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STD Counselor
I'm really sorry you're feeling this way, but I'm glad you reached out. It's completely normal to feel overwhelmed when dealing with a herpes diagnosis, but it's important to know that many people liv...
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STD Assistant
I understand that receiving a herpes diagnosis can be very challenging and overwhelming. It's normal to feel various emotions, including disgust, fear, and uncertainty about the future. Your feelings are valid, but it's important to remember that having herpes does not define your worth or who you are as a person.
It might help to talk to a therapist or counselor about these intense emotions surrounding your diagnosis. They can provide support and strategies for coping with the mental burden of living with herpes.
When it comes to dating, know that there are many understanding individuals out there who will accept you for who you are beyond any health condition. While wanting someone with similar experiences is understandable, being open-minded about potential partners may also lead you towards fulfilling relationships based on connection rather than solely shared medical conditions.
Remember always prioritizing self-care in moments when things seem tough; seeking professional guidance from therapists or support groups specializing in STDs could offer invaluable assistance during this period of emotional turmoil.