FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Coffee, lunch or day hike. Happy Hour best. Quick run to the coast. Camp in the dark woods. Bike ride on the green belt. 18 holes. Walk on the beach. Pick one or call your own.
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Any place where you and I can have a stimulating conversation and begin the process of getting to know each other. A place where we can have a modicum of privacy to just talk. There is not one ideal place for a first date. It can vary depending on the woman I am meeting. A place where she can feel comfortable and safe. If you prefer a more athletic first date, we could play a little tennis. Then we can enjoy a light lunch packed in a basket.
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I'm a water person, so anytime I can be outside and near water (and even an awesome sunset), then I am a happy person. Dinner with a view is a great way to start...
Category: Dinner
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A candlelit dinner in the mouth of a cave overlooking a Tuscan Valley in a thunderstorm? Preston Field House after exploring the Miracle Mile? Champagne and pot de crème at Chateauxe La Bourdaisiere or Chateau de Rochecotte? Cozied up in front of a blazing fireplace at after a day of skiing at Banff, Jackson, Aspen or Chamonix? Anchored out on a balmy evening pretty much anywherein the Mediterranean Well, ok: maybe those are more like second or third date ideas! But you get the idea...
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Ok I’m old fashioned so dinner and a movie is hard to beat. Unless you’re a bit adventurous. Then maybe a picnic then skinny dipping. Oops did I just say that?yep
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Take a nice walk or take bike ride or pick apples or some sort of outside activity while getting to know each other
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Coffee date
Short and sweet, we'll go from there. I prefer this so we are not locked into a long date if we are not a match
Category: Cafe
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Let's get to know each other while we do something outdoors/indoors, like share an experience, go for a walk or kite flying; bowling or pool are always fun activities, even volunteering somewhere, etc.
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A cafe or restaurant for lunch or dinner date. Your choice, so that you can feel the most at ease. Somewhere cozy and comfortable so we can get to know each other.
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I'd like to be able to have a lower volume place so we could hold conversation and get to know each other. Coffee, drinks, a walk, or any mutually agreed upon place if interest.
Category: Cafe
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First date is usually dinner in a quieter place so conversation is key
If it favorably taking a walk to afterwards can keep the tension going. And end with entertainment where sign and body language round out the evening’s
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A relaxed dinner, good conversation, easy laughter, and enough chemistry to make neither of us want to call it a night too early. The best first dates leave you smiling on the drive home—and curious about the next one.
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Nothing too fancy but not McDonald's either. I want us both to be comfortable. A nice brunch or lunch. Don't forget the flowers.
Category: Cafe
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An opportunity to get to know the other person while doing something together. Could be a walk or exploring a few area, getting out on our bikes.
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My ideal first date would be something simple and relaxed where we can actually talk and get to know each other. Maybe a nice dinner, a walk somewhere beautiful, or even a casual outing where we can laugh and enjoy each other’s company. I don’t need anything extravagant—it’s more about the conversation, the connection, and feeling comfortable with one another. If we both leave smiling and looking forward to seeing each other again, I would consider that a great first date..
Category: Cafe
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To meet for some casual conversation - light and breezy-maybe over a bite to eat or a cup of coffee, maybe a glass of wine. I'm a very light drinker, as in 3-4 drinks every 3-4 months :-)
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Something outdoors, a short hike or a boat trip, followed by an outdoor meal. Maybe a baseball game?
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Spending time talking, sharing, and getting to know one another. What we’re doing is not as important as our being together.
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A first date- walking in a beautiful setting talking. Coffee is like a truth serum for me-let’s wait on that if YOU want to talk too. Lol
Later on, maybe dinner at a restaurant overlooking water. Maybe dancing?
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Perhaps a coffee then if there’s a spark a mooch around a flea market followed by brunch in a cosy cafe.
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