FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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A meet and greet at a bar of some sort where all of us can chat to see if we click and discuss the dynamics.
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My ideal date would be going to the beach, having a picnic, and walking while we talk. It could also be going for coffee or sharing a meal.
Before that, there would have to be a video call.
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Share a drink, food and conversation. Hopefully find out more about each other and take things from there.
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We absolutely just have to hang out first. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation shoot me a message. Let’s talk. Then let’s figure out where we’re gonna go eat and after dinner if we want to go our separate ways that’s fine. We had a nice dinner. Now if it works out we can do something else, maybe breakfast, a sunset, a walk, or anything else we can think of.
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Dinner and a movie then walk in the park afterwards. I guess it depends if it’s the first date or the fifth date.
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Wine or coffee. Talk. Walk. Talk. Wine and dinner. walk. Talk until we open our authentic selves.
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Coffee. Public. Breakfast or lunch. Library. Basically some place public but private, relaxed, no strings, no pressure....
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My ideal date is a thoughtful date with great conversation, mutual effort, lots of laughter, and a real connection or feeling when hours pass by without either of us noticing. Somewhere we can be ourselves, enjoy the moment, and leave already looking forward to date number two. I appreciate someone who is present, intentional, and curious about getting to know the person across from them. No pressure, just good energy and the possibility of something meaningful.
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A walk in nature by the water somewhere to start then a busy trendy restaurant with good food and music
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Coffee or cocktails, rooftop, comfortable atmosphere, great ambiance, fluent conversation, and great views from each perspective.
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Option #1...I enjoy italian food so Im envisioning a nice italian restaurant for dinner and possibly a dessert we could share maybe Tiramisu and a Cappuccino. Then a nice walk somewhere afterwards to get to know each other better.
Option #2...Let's PLEASE go for a nice long horse back ride! I absolutely LOVE horses and always will! They literally light me up from the inside out! They are "magical creatures" indeed and their energy is exquisite! Their internal and external beauty/energy speaks to me!
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Dinner,walk in the park and a movie get some snacks maybe go home watch tv,give her a full body massage. Kiss her good bye and hopefully that there will be a second date and see where it goes from there.
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Someone who is genuine, easy to talk too. Makes you feel comfortable and relaxed. Time goes fast rather than slow.
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Chemistry-check at a coffee house, pub, or beach. Eye contact. Does it lead to a hug… holding hands.
Is it like being 18 again - trying to maximize every minute before curfew- wishing it would never end.
Afterwards the memories pop into our heads randomly and make us smile.
If yes, I hope we’ll see each other again.
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Something light, free flowing and relaxed. Just a chance to say hi and see if we click. No sense wasting a lot of time messaging when it’s that in person moment that let’s you know “ this could be fun!”
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Hard to explain since I'm a spontaneous person. I usually play it by however the vibe is. It basically depends on the connection
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I prefer to meet in person early on, but I'm happy to video chat first if that feels more comfortable. My favorite first dates involve a fun activity where we can actually hear each other talk, like a walk on the waterfront, a farmers market, or bowling.
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Having lunch watching the weather over the sound and talking and sharing life experiences . I'm a open book just ask
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Someplace we can talk. Want to go tromp out around in the woods and check out some trails? Sit by a fire sharing the lord's lettuce and ponder our existence? Maybe go to a metaphysical store and browse? Spirit fair?
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Maybe lunch or coffee? Keep it light and easy going. I havent been on a date in a long time so Im really not sure what to expect
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