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GPxxxxxx

Surrey, BC, CAN

Get a coffee to go.. and set out for a walk along a waterfront somewhere. Just a relaxing walk and talk.
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SBxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

To have a great day being in each other’s company having fun and laughter enjoying the moment and creating memories that can be talked about for days, months and years.
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loxxxxxx

Homeland, CA, USA

Something nice somewhere nice, maybe coffee or maybe lunch... we can save dinner for the next date if you don't fire me after the first.
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Faxxxxxx

Ottawa, ON, CAN

Good conversation, good food, lots of laughs, and being comfortable enough that it doesn’t feel like a first date
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Jexxxxxx

Rochester Hills, MI, USA

Maybe a simple meet at a happy hour somewhere. Comfortable, simple, no expectations or complications.
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Caxxxxxx

Dallas, TX, USA

Coffee & conversation, then dinner, followed by a walk along the beach, or a stroll through the park.
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Paxxxxxx

LND, GBR

Somewhere with music in the background, or in a quaint coffee shop, or a drink in a local pub... or preceded by a visit to a local museum. -I can appreciate various settings. It’s the company that really counts.
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CLxxxxxx

ON, CAN

Oh, there’s so many great things we could do on our first date. Let’s meet for happy hour and then find some live music and walk around the city. Or let’s pack a picnic and go for a kayak. (I know a ton great spots to kayak in the GTA.) How about a museum on a rainy day? Or even better it would be fun for you to come up with a fun idea and surprise me.
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UNxxxxxx

Tacoma, WA, USA

I'm not the candle lit dinner kind of guy, but if my lady is, I will accommodate her. But my type of first date is getting to know each other and cooking a meal together either at her place, or my place, anywhere but a place where it cost more to tip afterwards than it does for me to buy a week's full of groceries so I can cook at home. I don't bake cookies and cakes, but I make homemade pizza, full meals, chicken, cheeseburgers, and my own specialty called gospel stew.
Category: Culinary Adventures
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Daxxxxxx

Sarasota, FL, USA

Rather than writing a bunch of things about myself, I prefer to meet and talk. If there is a connection let's go from there. If not then at least we met and learned something. Just a place we can talk and learn about each other. I feel you can learn alot about someone by their mannerisms.
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Coxxxxxx
Always coffee first and then if there is chemistry, we can make plans for the rest of the day, week, lifetime! It could happen…
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Bexxxxxx

Reydon, ENG, GBR

A cup of coffee or lunch in a pub would be a good way to meet for the first time. Maybe a cafe or restaurant that is part of an Art centre, or the starting point of a countryside walk
Category: Museums and Galleries
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Rexxxxxx

Aberdeen, WA, USA

Don't overthink this one. Just meet, hangout, hit a thrift store or go to Costco. I don't care! It's about us making a connection, right?
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rexxxxxx

DEV, GBR

Good conversation in a relaxing place, with a gentleman who knows how to treat a lady with good food and wine.
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DAxxxxxx

Hattiesburg, MS, USA

A spontaneous road trip, stopping at a unique restaurant, walking and talking along the water afterward.
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hexxxxxx

Imperial Beach, CA, USA

Meeting for coffee or a drink somewhere outdoors, with no pressure—just good conversation, a few laughs, and seeing whether we enjoy each other’s company.
Category: Cafe
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Mzxxxxxx

Capitol Heights, MD, USA

Coffee, or dessert at a quiet location where we can talk and get to know each other. It's not necessary to break the bank on the first date or any date for that matter.
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frxxxxxx

Fort Worth, TX, USA

Our 1st contact will be a quick "Meet and Greet" over coffee or drinks(even though I don't) to see if we feel in each other. After that, if we have a mutual liking then then we can go on a real date.... Dog walk to a pet cafe Bowling Roller skating dinner and a movie Shoot pool Lunch in a park Laser tag Race track Vegas 🤣 Almost Anything!!! I am adventurous!
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Maxxxxxx

Sonoma County, CA, USA

You make me laugh so hard I ALMOST pee my pants. (But no pressure!) First date is brief & casual. Bring your dog if you really want me to be smitten. Special date would be seafood near the water at sunset. Brunch is also good. And I love a good sports bar. Go NINERS!
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TAxxxxxx

Cloquet, MN, USA

I would say The 'FIRST DATE' is more of a 'Meeting' for an hour or so ...to see if their is any 'Potential' more than anything else! If you have some of THAT... then you set something up mutually agreeable for a longer time period for the 'next time.' Of course there are exceptions for a longer date with today's technology, video calling etc that could change a first date possibilities quite a bit! Obviously I have been out of The loop for an extended time! Proximity to each other unfortunately....will be a challenge from what I'm seeing so far with people for me. : (
Category: Lunch
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