FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Meet for coffee or a cocktail in a place quiet enough for good conversation. Weather permitting, take a walk outdoors and chat for awhile.

TBD. It’s who, not what or where. :) Could be anything we choose. A simple coffee and conversation, to an experienced based event. Great dinner always a possibility.

Simple coffee, soda or beer....Hi and bye. If we want a second date......Surprise me. I am easy going. Laughing is Mandatory!

Anywhere we can share a laugh or smile, chat a little over drink 🍷 or a cup of coffee could be perfect

Have a drink or two with some apps or a nice meal. Location not important because I’d rather pay attention to you than the restaurant!

Something simple,like a nice conversation over a coffee or a cold beverage.This would take place in a public location.

I feel the first date should be casual, such as a coffee date. A coffee dates allows me to read someones body language and energy without food being a distraction.

I don’t think there’s anything that would be an ideal first date. Or rather, I don’t know that I could formulate one without knowing who I’d be on a date with. A perfect date might be an afternoon of talking and coffee in a quiet coffee shop somewhere. And yet another might be grabbing a drink and talking again. It might be dinner in a nice restaurant or in a sports bar watching a game. It really all depends on the person I would be having a date with regardless of what that date is, the goal is very simple: to get a second and third date and beyond.

Our first date: I would spend the day getting ready: bathed, hair done, nails clipped, beard trimmed, ears and nose hairs plucked, deloused and perfumed. Try on a couple of outfits. Find the perfect look. Once dressed, I would sit quietly and read until you arrive to pick me up in your hybrid car. You, looking fabulous, greet me at my door with a single flower and a pleasent look of surprise that I clean up so well. You make a sincere apology for being a few minutes early and offer to wait if I need more time. I don't. We exchange a few flattering comments and you ask me if I have any food allergies or special diet preferences. I don't. You take my hand and walk me to your car where you open the door and wait until I'm seated and then you take one more look. The sunlight sparkles in my eyes. You close the door gently and take a deep breath. Then you whisk me away to a little out of the way cafe that you've heard about and have been wanting to try with someone special. We settle down at a corner table and order wine. Some initial chit-chat getting to know more about each other, that one embarrassing story you just have to tell, and more witty banter between us and our wait staff then you lean over and whisper in my ear... Or something like that.

A lovely walk holding hands and following up with a cup of coffee to chat, laugh and stare into each others eyes or a trip to the beach with a homemade meal and wine listening to each other laughing

Juice bar, coffee, or brunch. A walk in the park is always great. I love the outdoors. A simple first date.

A nice dinner in a quiet place with great conversation between us. We can decide what we want to do after dinner, a movie, a walk, depending on how the night is going.

Meet for lunch or just coffee in agreed upon location. If that location is in walking distance to water or other sites, that would be good.

I think lunch is a good start. I love seafood but a burger is good too. I don't like Mexican food and breakfast isn't my thing

Meet for coffee or a drink for a face-to-face chat to see if we share a common connection and then take the next date from there!

Prefer an intimate setting over a noisy, crowded venue so we can talk and see if there a connection .

As a child I wanted to be a professional dancer,.and.still today love to dance..I love jazz and all junra of music and I enjoy opera and musicals, because.they do tell a.story.Most importantly of.all I am a open minded person and.as I love myself, thus I love.the human race BECAUSE.WE ARE ONE!

My ideal first date would be to a sporting event where we can chill, get to know one another and enjoy the game.

Meeting up for a small bite to eat in a nice quiet atmosphere. Talking, getting to know one another.

I don’t consider the first meeting a date. It is something simple that might last anywhere from an hour to all day. There is absolutely no reason to be nervous when meeting me. I’m very easy to talk to and you will never feel pressured or drama. If all goes well, we can plan a date.