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Honestly, my ideal date doesn’t need to be expensive or ridiculously planned.
I’d much rather spend time with someone where we can actually talk, laugh and get to know each other.
Something like going for a nice walk somewhere scenic, stopping for food or a coffee, exploring somewhere neither of us has been before and seeing where the day takes us would be perfect.
Or we could completely abandon the sensible plan and go for food, a few drinks, plenty of ridiculous conversation and see who can make the other laugh first .
I’m also a big fan of those dates where you start with “let’s just grab a coffee” and somehow end up spending six hours together.
For me, the location matters far less than the company. Give me someone I can be completely comfortable with, have proper conversations with, take the piss out of, and laugh until our faces hurt, and that’s a pretty good date in my book.
Bonus points if there’s good food involved.
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I’d love to explore a local event or area, gain some insight to great food in the area and things to do,
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Going swimming or mini golfing, then dinner can be discussed but id choose Italian. If all is good snuggles and a movie.
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A new restaurant neither of us have tried or mini golf, bowling, hiking, basketball if you play lol or somewhere we can just walk and talk. Even better if you’re 420 friendly
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Idk..Maybe an evening at the zoo because I am tired of people and the stress of finding something to eat.
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Sporting events are pretty awesome . It would be cool if you are open to them. Which sport would be you willing to watch live?
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Lasers for my crows feet lol, edgwater racing, lil black book dates from doordash menus ive gotten, grafitti my house
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Let get high and hit Area 15. Anything with great food & great vibes. Let me cook for you! Let’s cook together instead!
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Going to the range or for a hike, or even something as simple as chilling at home and me cooking a meal.
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One i don’t have to plan all the details, a guy who can use his own brain to plan a fun date is such a turn on!
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Dinner at Victory on Milwaukee Avenue in Logan square and then Emporium bar/arcade let’s see your skills
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My ideal first date would be somewhere peaceful where we can actually hear each other talk and get to know one another—maybe dinner at a nice restaurant followed by a walk somewhere beautiful. Nothing overly complicated or forced. Just good food, genuine conversation, plenty of laughter, and that feeling where neither of us realizes how much time has passed.
For me, the perfect first date isn’t really about where we go—it’s about who I’m sitting across from. If the connection is right, even something simple can become a night neither of us wants to end.
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Have some wine at the beach enjoying each other's energy/vibes. Maybe even jet skiing if your adventurous
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Honestly, I’m a low-key kind of person. Give me a quiet setting, good food, great conversation, and someone I genuinely enjoy being around. Bonus points if there’s no crowd or traffic involved
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Picnic or a walk along the waters. Wine tasting or fishing. Art and date night eventings sounds good…
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Flowers. Drinks. Walk in the park. Music. Singing. Laughs. Holding hands. Open my doors. Be a gentleman.
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Something low key dinner drinks music stimulate each others minds get cozy enjoy the vibe atmosphere
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Good food, a new place, nonstop laughs, and effortless chemistry. No plans needed — just good energy and seeing where the night takes us.
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