FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Go downtown walk around check out some spots we haven't been to, Get a drink or 2 then grab some food and get to know each other. Im easy going up for anything so open to something you would like to do too.

Let’s do something fun — anywhere we can laugh, have a good time, and enjoy the moment. If the chemistry’s there, great. If not, at least we had fun!

A walk along the beach, a picnic, rent bikes and ride through the park, a cozy spot to sit and talk.

Although not much of a drinker, I like happy hour to meet and greet, usually within a week or two. A dog park,or a hiking trail is ok as long as it is cool out.

How about we go for a walk ? Or drink or eat something some where. I like simple things in a simple way in any place. I am use to travel.

Let’s try a new restaurant or meet to walk our dogs. Mine will need to approve you. I want to have a shared experience and see if we see things similar and enjoy the conversation

An ideal date would be meeting for coffee or a dinner and movie. I like hiking and going to parks also.

Coffee, tea or smoothie and a conversation. If it's nice out a walk while we're getting to know eachother a bit.

Let’s keep it simple. Happy hour, good conversation, and no pressure – just seeing where the evening takes us.

I don't have any ideal date ideas fore anything goes as long as we both are having fun and yes a good sucking and swallowing is part of the first date

Getting to know each other over a phone call or FaceTime. Meet up for a cup of coffee or a glass of wine. Conversations. Lots of laughs.

Let's get to know each other first. If we click, then we can talk about the next move. Im very interested in your goals and dreams. In theses days its hard to find loyalty. People jump ship at the slightest annoyance. Realize life is a journey. There's ups and downs. I like my space to work on my music goals but you should have a goal too so we dont annoy each other AND we'll have so much more to be thankful for. Let's live together as helpers rather than selfishly. Let's focus on God, doing right, and loving people. Most people are focused on their own needs rather than how they can be helpful. Im a goofball sometimes and I got great comebacks. Lol. But Im a serious guy. If you're tired of all those wrong guy types than Ill be a breath of fresh air. Im not the tallest, strongest or cutest guy but you'll never know if you dont at least chat with me. Right? Im not into crazy liberal types so it'll be a hard NO to anymore that can't reason and use common sense. That means you actually think before you speak. Research the facts for real. Don't assume anything. I do deep dives. On anything. I want you to grow as a person. Come out of your comfort zone. Live live live. Don't be stagnant. Try new things in life. Not dangerous stuff just be open to being wrong sometimes. Im wrong sometimes. Don't be stubborn. Or foolish. Set goals. Be the awesome you. Ill help as much as I can. Its not good to be alone. Im not lonely but Im in need of a companion. A wife. Im not into mind games. I speak my mind now. Holding stuff in is bad for anyone. Herpes sucks. But sex is not more important than a whole life of great memories. Please dont pass me up because you're set in your ways and will not change. I may be THE GUY you're looking for.

My ideal first day would be a nice dinner with good conversation and maybe a walk along the lakefront afterwards

I don't really drink much alcohol but I enjoy a good coffee, tea, boba and the like. Meet at a coffee house that's not too loud? A walk in the park would be a good option as well.

Soothing that we both agree upon. A quiet environment that will allow for us talk and enjoy each other’s company.

I like a low stakes first date, maybe coffee, giving us a chance to get to know each other without too much pressure.

The setting matters less than the company. Seeking: Easy-Conversation, Humor, Chemistry, Things-In-Common. and Anticipation for more....

Coffee and/or a walk would be great. Perhaps a visit to a museum or bookstore. Something that would allow us a chance to talk.

For our first meeting (date) let’s meet for coffee or a drink or maybe a walk/hike in a park and see if there’s any chemistry.

I think a first meeting should be short and easy for either one of us to extricate ourselves! Coffee or a drink would be perfect. We can always stay longer or meet if there's a connection.