FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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Well I mean it could be anything from a coffee to an impromptu trip somewhere depending on how we vibe.
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If you've made it this far,
Let's get past the profile phase first.
Not into wasting either of our time.
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For our first date, I’d enjoy something simple and relaxed where we can genuinely get to know each other
Category: Lunch
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I love keeping things simple and low-pressure for an initial meetup, so a late morning or midday coffee or tea is usually my go-to. It's the perfect, relaxed way to say hello in person. If we find that we have a great connection and the conversation is flowing, I’m always open to extending it into a casual lunch or taking a nice walk through a local park. For me, the best dates are simply about having a good conversation and getting to know each other genuinely.
Category: Cafe
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A first ideal date depends on the season.
Getting together for a drink at a place with a great ambience, getting a coffee together at a coffee shop or a traditional dinner date.
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I think a fun outdoor activity takes the awkward pressure off of a first date. I enjoy being outside so there's always something to do!
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Walk through Balboa Park, then grab a drink at Panama 66 on a Wednesday night for the Jazz Jam with Gilbert Castellanos and friends... Possibly smoke a joint along the way if that's where the mood takes us.
(This is really a stupid "required field" on their form, since I tend to personalize dates based on the shared interests of the person I'm out with. I do not have a "Standard" first date plan. Really, I'm up for anything... going to the park, the beach, dinner, brunch, club, concert, festival, or flying off to Paris... I'm a passionate Scorpio with few limitations and brutal honesty.)
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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I’d say anywhere in a chilled nice atmosphered location, it’s more about getting to know who I’m dating..
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My ideal partner is a masculine independent guy who wants more than a quick hook up. I’m more of an introvert so guys that are open to getting to know each other hit me up.
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Coffee to break the ice, followed by a walk through a museum or one of New York’s neighborhoods. I love conversations that wander from travel and music to life’s big questions. If we’re laughing, losing track of time, and already planning a second date before the first one ends, we’ve done it right.
Category: Dinner
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Surprise me!
You take the lead.
Let’s be brave and get out there!
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Going to lunch or for dinner and just sit and talk as we get to know one another someone who independent and open minded
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A first date could be tea or drink, but an ideal date is going away for a weekend, being adventurous with a hike and an evening supper.
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Meet casually for coffee or a drink and see if there is a desire to move forward. We connect or we don’t, no harm, no foul.
Category: Drinks
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Conversation leaving topics of politics, religion, and sex out. i love meeting new people and have met many great friends on this site including male, female, and transgendered. Please be open minded about lbgtq, as i have many friends and family that are. I am not into "ultra maga" conservative people, if your an "extreme" liberal too, both are turnoffs.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Doesn't need to be complicated, always up for adventure, fun and good conversation and then let's see if there is a connection.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Video chat-Homemade meal-A beer-Casual walk-Coffee-Nature-I choose-You choose-Festival-A great restaurant-Whatever
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My ideal FIRST date would be a walk on the Beltline or in the park. We would stop for coffee/tea and continue our fascinating conversation. At this point, if we are genuinely digging each other, we agree to meet up later for drinks and dinner.
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A farmer’s market, a favorite taco spot, a walk in the park - simple pleasures are a great place to start
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Happy to meet at restaurant or bar for drink. Also on a nice day meeting at a park for walk would be nice.
Category: Drinks
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