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Coffee and conversation I’m not sure what else to put here so I’ll just ramble until I hit 100 characters, there
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My first date idea is coffee somewhere and getting to know each other a little . Maybe a walk in a nice park., however just throw it out there cause I’m very versatile and like to do many things . Not really into the bar scene however .
Category: Spontaneous Daytime Activities
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Let’s meet up to see if we have a connection, then we can go from there! If you can make it thru a phone conversation, you’re good!!
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Our for a coffee but later we can decide together what will work best for us! Good communication is the key .
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Conversation and communication are my biggest concerns when it comes to dating. I need engagement and fun, let’s figure it out together!
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First, I would love to take you for a great BBQ dinner or maybe some Hibachi. Then I thought we could go and get some delicious custard or ice cream all the while enjoying some great conversation. Then I would ask you for an idea as to what to do next. Sometimes, I need input from my partner. I am open to anything you might have in mind. I am sure together, we could come up with something interesting to do. End the night with a passionate kiss and plans to go out on a second date. How does that sound?
Category: Dinner
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I love coffee but that is so cliché.
Let's get a boba tea and walk around. I really love boba so if you sneak off I'll still feel like it was a good date.
Category: Drinks
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Looking for someone who enjoys good conversation, laughter, and trying new things. Let's grab dinner , catch a movie , then see where the day takes us. I'm open to fun adventures, exploring new places, and making great memories together.
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Lots of date ideas: drinks and conversation, an outdoor concert, a walk in the park or really anything.
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An ideal date would be, meeting someone in the same situation as myself and sharing stories and feeling not alone out there in this world. Such an odd question.
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Bottle of wine and charcuterie on a private riverbank where we can soak our feet in the cool clear water, chat t it up with some boxed question sets, start a fire as the sun goes down if the weather is good and catch a meteor shower.
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Let's meet in the middle.
Have a drink or some good conversation.
If everything seems cool, let's move forward.
Category: Drinks
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Somewhere we can talk and feel good vibes. Interest in one another, shows caring. We weren't born the day we met. It is important to share experiences. It says how you became who you are today.
Category: Brunch
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Let go for a hike in Boulder and after grab some lunch on the patio at the RIO grande Mexican restaurant.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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Meet publicly. Have dinner. Keep it funny and not serious. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Let's talk for awhile. -----------
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Coffee makes sense - or if you are up for a challenge let’s hit the grind and you can show me what your made of...I’ll be in Toronto July 20-26, 2026
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I am very easygoing and adaptable. A recovering workaholic w/ a very small social circle. Would prefer you & I time over groups/events/noise that are counterintuitive to the "getting to know" stage. Which I enjoy immensely.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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A casual meal, time to visit and become acquainted, a walk somewhere in public and by the water. Hopefully lots of laughs.
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A coffee bar, donut shop or park or any other quiet place where we can hear good and talk face to face and vibe and have fun.
Category: Cafe
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Meet in person after we chat, go out to eat or have dinner at his place. Then we watch a movie if we vibe.
Category: Spontaneous Nighttime Activities
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