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Casual coffee date. You always get to know someone quicker when you meet them in person. Gotta check out if they have a sense of humor; which I find attractive.
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How about we grab our favorite tea coffee or hot chocolate at a Starbucks or local cafe? Talk about our interests, see if there is some compatibility
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Coffee or a drink, no expectations, just an opportunity for us to determine whether a mutual interest and comparability exist.
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Coffee/tea is always a good way to start, so nobody feels like they're being used for their money..
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First date should be getting breakfast in pajamas. I think it would be great to be comfortable and in no hurry. There is no need to put a bunch of effort into our appearance before we get to know if all that work is worth it.
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Late morning coffee at a quiet cafe or coffee shop so that if it goes well it could move on to lunch and an afternoon walk. Bustling downtowns with unique shops are always fun.
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I like to start simple. My first date goals is to put eyes on you, get comfortable, and see if we can have good conversations.
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would love to go for a coffee or a drink maybe get some appetizers get to know each other maybe go for a walk afterwards
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I would love a coffee date to see if there is an initial spark or a walk on the beach. Not looking to waste anyone's time. Life is too short!
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We could start off with a video call. If things go well, meet for a cup of coffee. I know for a fact, Portland is home to some amazing coffee places!
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Im pretty open to anything, I don't drink but I do enjoy finding a good spot to eat and doesnt have to be expensive. Or even somewhere fun. Something that gives us the opportunity to not only get to know each other, but also have fun at the same time.
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Coffee and conversation. Where we would use this time to get to know each other.
But im very reserved so we would have to have conversations through text and phone first.
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People watching, respectfully judging questionable decisions, and stealing your fries because I don’t share mine. Bonus points for spontaneous detours and laughing at nothing. I’m easy to entertain but impressing me takes effort.
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Afternoon Tea or Coffee, then a long walk to talk and share each other's beliefs and concerns. Opening up to a stranger may be difficult at first, until emotional safety is established.
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Simple and meaningful. I would love to meet for a cup of coffee and talk about life, goals, and what really matters. No distractions, just honest and genuine conversation. It's not about impressing each other, it's about being present, seeing if our values align, and discovering if this could be the beginning of something lasting.
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I enjoy coffee and board games. I think a first date over coffee and a board game is a good way to find out what ya need to know about a person....lol
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Cafe, lunch, dinner. Random meet and hang out. I'm pretty open, I guess we'll see where this takes us
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I prefer to have a first meeting over a cup of tea. Portal Tea Company is my favorite spot. It has a great atmosphere and is a nice place to chat to get to know one another and see if we have chemistry.
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We can go meet up and do a little coffee date to start things off and kick up a little conversation and see where it goes from there.
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Keep it super laid-back. No interviews, no pressure. A first meet doesn't need to be long to get a feel for the vibe —just make sure it's somewhere chill. You want to talk, hang out, and people-watch without feeling like you're putting on a show. It should all flow naturally.
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