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meet up someplace share in conversation a meal or coffee would love to go for a moto ride could meet at parks or any destination
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A cozy meal together followed by a peaceful walk in the park—time to talk, laugh, and genuinely connect.
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I think a couple hours at a cafe would be a great first date just to get the Hi, Hellos, nice to meet you out of the way and then decide if we are a good match.
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Any quiet place that we can talk and get to know each other without alot of distractions. I just want to get to know the real you, so its your choice where that takes place.
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lets get coffee and the go birdwatching at a local cemetery 😊🥰😍 whoever spots the prettiest bird and best headstone name wins!
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Dinner and drinks with atmosphere, a walk around the neighborhood, dumplings at 3am, late night jazz, picnics with homemade everything, an entire day at the Art Institute or Field Museum
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Let's get some coffee and converse while we get to know each other. This will allow us the opportunity to see if we are compatible.
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Something fun and light, get to know you and see what happens next. Anything from coffee to chips and salsa.
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If we havent been talking long I'd probably say coffee . Great place to talk and get to know each other.
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In my opinion, maybe a cafe somewhere nice and easy with not that many people, maybe some good conversation.
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Something low key would be great to see if we gel. A coffee catch up or even a quick lunch if you work in the city.
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I enjoy going with the flow. Let's start with conversation over a coffee and see where we end up.
I'm game for anything from going to kayaking to climbing to spending the evening at a pool table or a wander around the zoo.
When it's nice, let's hop on the bike for a ride!
I understand how women appreciate a guy to plan everything. Yet if you're not involved in that, how do we make sure we both enjoy ourselves? Lol
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Meet up in a public place. Get to know each other. Go for a walk or ride on my bike. See how things flow.
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Coffee/ tea and or a walk. A chance to get to know each other and see if there is a connection. No pressure just genuine conversation.
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Go to a lavender field and watch the Clouds
and talk. Nature walks on a cool day
Cafe in the morning, or Korean BBq at night 🤪
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Casual low key no pressure conversation is best. Meet for coffee or an activity like painting with a twist or something not cliche
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I like getting together at a local cafe for coffee or (a light meal) on an initial meet up. Inexpensive, easy and either side can excuse themselves once they've finish without feeling obligated if it's not a good match them. I've always stayed and visited but it's nice to know the option is there if the need ever presented itself (for either side).
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Coffee and/or lunch, followed by walking or wandering around looking at random stuff, or perhaps sitting on a bench outside talking with each other and watching the world go by
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I would love to meet someone while having coffee and cake, because I just love cakes :).
We could also go to a bar for wine.
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First dates can be stressful! I prefer a low pressure coffee (tea for me) meet up. Second dates can definitely be more elaborate!
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