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Mexxxxxx
Coffee or dinner somewhere we can have a real conversation and get to know each other. I believe in keeping it simple and seeing if there’s a natural connection.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
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Kaxxxxxx

Lake Saint Louis, MO, USA

New adventures Sushi igloos. River boat bruch/dinner cruise Drag show City winery
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Poxxxxxx

San Antonio, TX, USA

Meet face-to-face after several FaceTime interactions get a real vibe. Enjoy some wine or coffee and great conversation and Connection. Hopefully things progress to date 2.
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Mixxxxxx

Bellingham, MA, USA

coffee dates, hot chocolate dates. let's go to the zoo... the aquarium.... a museum. tattoo shop?? dinner dates are good, but I don't drink, so I don't want to go to a bar.
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fixxxxxx

NA, GBR

Go for a nice walk, maybe along the coast, then grab some lunch, simply get a conversation going to see how things go.
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mexxxxxx

Loveland, CO, USA

Lets grab coffee and people watch. Casual, fun, and plenty of conversation starters all around us....
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CHxxxxxx
My initial first date is asking him where he wants to take me. Day, time, is he a planner? So I would know kind of where he’s at, what he has in store and what type of life I would be walking into. So my initial first date would be up to him. I would not want to be the one planning that. I’m there to learn you. Then you’ll learn me once I walk into your world. But if you walk into my world first I won’t provide a world for you. My world really doesn’t matter, it matters to the extent of what I have cultivated, have I nurtured my world and where can my world take you once you enter my world. That’s why I won’t present the preconceived notion of what I want to do because you might show me something new.
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Crxxxxxx

Elgin, SC, USA

To meet someplace public for a soda or coffee just to talk and get to know each other a little. Then we can decide if it's a match or not.
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soxxxxxx

Tauranga, BOP, NZL

A nice first date would be to grab a coffee, go for a walk along the beach and chat to get to know each other a little
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Elxxxxxx

Raleigh, NC, USA

Coffee for a meet and greet is a good start for me, nothing to fancy and complicated to get to know each other.
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Clxxxxxx

Utica, MI, USA

Someplace quiet where we can look each other in the eyes, and have the other person hear what we'd like to say.
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arxxxxxx

Bandar, Selangor, MYS

conversation and quiet meal or coffee together, sharing some stories about ourselves in a safe space
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Kaxxxxxx
Let's meet someplace for a few glasses of wine (hopefully red) and see if we hit it off. If that works out we might meet again for dinner. An alternative would be to meet for a hike in new york cafe
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AJxxxxxx

Parla, MD, ESP

Lo sencillo también es único.No es necesario un gran plan para divertirse y pasarselo bien. Abierto a todo :)
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Trxxxxxx

Douglasville, GA, USA

Just holding a nice conversation and enjoy life. Give both of us yo learn from one another. A nice ice breaker.
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Baxxxxxx

Houston, TX, USA

well it would start by us communicating and ironing the details out, that way we both feel apart of the plan.More than likely a small café or coffee shop.
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raxxxxxx

Arma, KS, USA

coffee and conversation. keeping it simple and humble. I want to build a connection not give false expectations of fine dining or booze binging.
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isxxxxxx

Summerside, PE, CAN

To be honest I'd be simply happy just to grab a coffee and sit and chat somewhere public or nice. I live for the memories and money can't buy that.
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Jaxxxxxx

Perth, WA, AUS

A good coffee, an easy walk, and a relaxed chat — nothing fancy, just a good vibe and seeing if we click.
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bbxxxxxx

Poteau, OK, USA

I'm big on coffee shops. All my best and worst ideas usually start there. Perfect for conversation and learning about a person.
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