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An ideal date for me would be somewhere by the water , somewhere I could have peace of mind while getting to know my partner…
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First date I would like to have coffee or dinner, but, I am comfortable with anything, movie, the beach, hiking…you name it
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A very cool/weird coffee shop/book store or farmers market probably. Or good old brunch, we like chill activities early in the day.
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Depends on the person and how well we actually connect! Could be coffee or drinks! A trip to a museum and a walk through a park! Dinner and a movie! Snowboarding or the gun range! Who knows lol
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Grab drinks at Little Darlin, have a good conversation, and maybe grab some food while we’re there. Or we could go to Los Ojos or a good Mexican spot, get a couple drinks, share some food, and just see where the night takes us. Nothing overly planned, just good conversation, good food, and someone I genuinely enjoy being around.
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Tarot card readings at the local coffee shop. I also love gay clubs. I sleep with crystals under my pillow so I can dream about you.
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Something simple and relaxed, like dinner or grabbing a drink. Something where we can talk and get to know each other without pressure. Good company matters more to me than anything fancy.
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walking the lakeshore downtown Chicago to having a late night burger and coffee with a walk and site seeing. I’m happy to go out feel free and have a good time. Im also open to brainstorm and come up with an idea.
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My life has revolved around drugs the last ten years and now that I’m sober I’m starting to see what life has to offer. So id have to say any kind of date weather it’s hiking or at a restaurant is fine by me.
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Something low key where we walk around and get to know each other. Possibly over coffee, or a museum
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Have a casual bite to eat with some pool, maybe a drink or coffee. Go for a walk along the river. Just hang out, keep it super easy and relaxed. Up for anything really.
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Lets meet for a coffee and a board game, it's far better than just making conversation for getting to know someone and it's almost fun.
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Laid back and No pressure, just have a good time and see if there’s chemistry. Something fun, playful and adventurous.
Miniature golf, laser tag, wall climbing, go karts,
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Something relaxed where we can talk and get to know each other coffee, dinner, drinks, a walk by the beach, or trying somewhere new together. Good conversation, lots of laughs, and no pressure.
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At this point I’ve come to the conclusion that I will die alone, I’d rather not to 100% honest, willing to put the effort into meeting the right person.
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Grab coffee, get dinner, or go bowling. Something casual where we can talk, joke around, and get to know each other.
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Let’s make a fool of ourselves like we are kids again rolling down hills.. then sneak away and create physical intimacy. Come hang out with me & my chickens.
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Something simple where we can talk and get to know each other. Probably a coffee or dinner situation.
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My ideal first date is something simple but intentional. Maybe grabbing ice cream, or enjoying a nice dinner where we can actually talk, laugh, and get to know each other. I'm more interested in good conversation, genuine chemistry, and how we connect than anything overly extravagant. It's all about the company, not the setting.
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I think first dates should be something public yet intimate. Let's talk and get to know each other. I’m not against coffee dates! I love outdoor activities too.
Bonus points if you know good spots in Charlotte that I haven't been to before.
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