FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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One with intectual conversation and mural chemistry. A man who is a gentle man who acts as such. Dinner or games. Maybe the movies. Play cards and drinks. I’m easy going
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Something we can do to get to know each other better. Maybe visit a favorite food spot, try something new like hibachi (grab dinner and enjoy a show), or share a favorite activity.
Category: Dinner
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No tengo un plan ideal, creo que más importa la persona que el lugar, cuando te llevas bien con alguien el lugar muchas veces deja de ser relevante, puede ser desde una caminata sin rumbo o salir a comer
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My ideal date would be something simple but special. Maybe grabbing coffee or having dinner somewhere nice where we can talk, laugh, and genuinely get to know each other. Then taking a walk, exploring a new place, or just enjoying each other’s company. What matters most to me is having good chemistry, mutual interest, and leaving the date excited to see each other again.
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Everyone puts coffee lol yall are whack no one wants to go sit in a coffee shop and chill we’re in Texas not New York plus coffee makes me poop so I’m definitely saying no to that on a first date. I’m not looking for random hookups. No I will not go on a hike or walk for our first date that’s weird and creepy I don’t know you and if you are too daft to understand why it’s weird move along.
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Grab some food get some coffee take a walk on the beach to get to know one another let’s get this date
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Mostly just good conversation. Seeing if we understand each other’s languages. Hoping there is a spark
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My ideal date would start with something fun and active, like mini golf, bowling, or a walk somewhere beautiful. I enjoy a little friendly competition and being able to laugh together without feeling like we’re in an interview. Afterward, we could grab dinner somewhere cozy and have a real conversation about our interests, values, and what makes us happy. I appreciate a man who puts thought into planning, is respectful, and makes me feel comfortable being myself. It doesn’t have to be expensive or extravagant. What matters most is the effort, mutual chemistry, and leaving the date excited to see each other again.
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I just wanna get to know you for you. I’m not judgmental. I don’t even care what you got going on. I wanna be here to be ear. Our relationship can happen, but whatever happened to support? I’m open.
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An Ideal date is w.e we agree upon.
I consider your input just as important as mine.
As long as we can enjoy each other’s company, my interest is that, and the shared activity is a plus.
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Brunch and a nice (slow) walk somewhere with a view! I just find it's less pressure to talk when doing an activity + prolonged eye contact can be so daunting/intimidating. Oh, and a hot drink, OFC to accompany the walk HAHAH.
Category: Brunch
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Beat me at bowling and then let's laugh at how bad I play. Maybe it'll give you a chance to shine and be my teacher 😊.
Category: Playing Sports / Games
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Let’s use our creativeness and do something that we both never done, let’s have fun because we only have one leg to live, and it’s better to understand that what are we afraid of? let’s cook together, let’s travel together, let’s sightseeing together
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That’s a lovely description of your ideal date. I’d smooth it slightly like this:
I’m not really into big, fancy dates. I prefer simple but meaningful things, like having a picnic, cooking together, or watching the stars. For me, the ideal date is more about who I’m with than where we are. Even the dreamiest setting can feel like a nightmare if the person I’m with is arrogant or self-absorbed.
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Something we mutually enjoy and inexpensive I feel like you shouldn’t have to break the bank on something you don’t know if you like let’s do a cheap first date and see if we want to INVEST into each other !!!!
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I like simple and intentional. Maybe drinks and conversation on the first. Then something playful to get to each other deeper next.
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Once I see where our interests align, I'll map out a chill vibe for us. Just communicate availability w/ me.
Category: Drinks
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This might sound crazy but I am a morning person, wanna grab brekky? Either that or we can grab a drink and go for a walk and have a chat or if you're feeling daring, night drinks and a dance 🕺
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I like to go have fun concerts, we can plan a date I like paintball, batting cages
We could go to the park , I want to try new things in life so I'm up for anything adventurous
Category: Live Music / Concerts
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Looking forward to seeing how you are in person rather than texting forever and being mislead. Love olive garden and Portuguese food.
Category: Lunch
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