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I wouldn’t call a first meeting a “date”. More of a “get to know another person”. Labels equate to an expectation. Not looking to lead someone on. Going into it just to chat, and make a friend. If there’s any chemistry, then… who knows, right?
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First date is a getting to know you in person phase and has to be coffee or something equivalent. Possibly nature walk, etc.
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Anything/place comfortable... coffee(I'm an early riser), lunch, a happy hour with food. Walk, bike, hang out.
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Coffee somewhere quiet, a walk if the weather’s nice, and an easy conversation that just flows.
Nothing fancy — just time to talk, laugh, and see if the energy feels natural.
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No first impressions. I hate to look who I am not to impress anyone. That was my look sometimes in the past, so going to date? Come as you are, and be open to ideas. Otherwise it will be better and better as we go by
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Somewhere quiet, yet public, could be a coffee shop, out for ice cream, or weather permitting, possibly a walk in the park
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I like the idea of the 0th date. Something short, coffee maybe, that doesn't last over an hour, and then decide together on, or if, there's a 1st date.
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An ideal first date would be something low key, like meeting for coffee, or drinks some afternoon...
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coffee and a chat. pick each other's brains. I don't want to text for long. I want to know a person can be a companion, a keeper.
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I really would just like to get some tea or coffee with somebody and talk. Or sit in a park. I don’t care about money. I care about conversation and connection intellectual connection. Emotional connection.
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I like keeping the first date simple. Grab a coffee or tea. I like to have dates earlier in the day, so if something is there, you have time to keep it going. Staying sober is a must. I want a mutual connection built naturally, not by alcohol.
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I believe the best first meetings are simple and relaxed maybe coffee or tea somewhere quiet where we can talk and actually get to know each other. No pressure, no expectations, just good conversation and seeing how the connection feels.
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Asi takhle v kavárně bych dal první schůzku, vyhodilo by se co by jsme celkově vymysleli tečka je to trošku řekl bych složitější tak abys tam líbilo tobě i mě. Ale představu mám už i už teď
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Down with whatever my date wants to do. I like going for a cruise an a tea/coffee. lunch is fine also
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Most likely something simple coffee, maybe lunch. Talk feel out the vibes maybe a walk in the park or a museum. Concert or comedy show. EDM festival?
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Coffee → Walk → Light Bite
Start with coffee or tea at a cozy spot where you can actually talk. If the vibe is good, take a relaxed walk nearby—waterfront, park, or a lively neighborhood. Finish with a light bite (tapas, dessert, or a casual bistro) instead of a full dinner.
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Something short and sweet.... like having coffee or a glass of wine at a winery. Hopefully we'll smile a lot and enjoy each other's company without any pressure. The second date? Surprise me!
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Coffee and conversation followed by a walk around the lake or favorite Park in the city. If things go well then continuing on through lunch or even dinner.
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A good date , start off with coffee and naturally flow into dinner or walk if things are going well. ( weather permitted)
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I don't want to feel like I'm on a job interview; so short and sweet. The /second/ date can be the fun one!
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