FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Let go for a walk in the park after grab brunch it's nice out. 🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️ 😊. If this go well we can go to a book shop or check out westgate or catch a movie at the drive in?

def ideal_date(): return "good food, easy laughs, and no weird for vibe in ["music", "food", "late night talks"]: print("must enjoy:", vibe)

I'd love a picnic where we make our own treats or buy them have the little traditional picnic basket and picnic cloth and just have a cute little picnic at the park with wine

Coffee sounds great. Take me to your favourite place or we could go to mine. We can chat and get some tasty brew.

Coffee and a walk on the riverwalk and maybe a bite to eat after, really talking to see if we are aligned in life.

Coffee and conversation to see if we click. I don't mind paying my own way, just let me know before we go.

Coffee or a small meal so we can converse ans get to know each other. Nothing too serious, let's see if we mesh!

Honestly if we hit it off, I'm up for coffee, etc., while walking. That's a pre-requisite for getting a vibe.

A quite place to communicate and get to know more about each other. I enjoy the beach and seafood which would be my choice of a friendly atmosphere.

Coffee or a casual drink somewhere quiet, good conversation, and maybe a walk afterward. The best first dates are the ones where time passes quickly because the conversation feels natural.

I prefer a simple first meet for coffee, tea, etc. If the conversation flows, maybe we can extend the time, or plan an exciting first date.

Go out for coffee, bike riding out to dinner, maybe a movie or thrifting date, local concert I don't go out much so introduce me to something fun that's not to busy

Coffee and talk, a meeting date, go from there. We can certainly expand the date if there is a connection.

A coffee and a walk around the Forks in good weather. Anything coffee for first date is a good place to start I find.

First dates are so important. It would be somewhere we can talk and have a cup of coffee or tea. Light and no pressure. We'd have to see if there would be a second date.

My idea of first date is to be able to meet and talk to get to actually know each other. Coffee then stroll down a beach or trail.

Someplace casual and comfortable, doesn’t matter much because a connection can be discovered anywhere.

A great cup of coffee while we get to know each other and see how we vibe. After that we'll head for a walk, a drive, explore or what ever we can imagine. If it goes well we'll keep it going! If not, I'll take you home.......

I love all kinds of dates, but sharing a meal together is one of the best ways to have a good conversation and get to know someone. Let's grab coffee, a drink, or an ice cream and see if we connect!

For a first date, I’d like something simple, relaxed, and comfortable for both of us. Maybe meeting somewhere public that feels safe and neutral — a cozy café, a casual restaurant, or a quiet spot that isn’t too crowded or too noisy or too quiet. Somewhere we can actually talk, laugh a little, and see if the conversation flows naturally. I think first meetings should feel low pressure. No big expectations — just two people getting to know each other in real time. I’d enjoy sharing a coffee or a light meal, asking meaningful questions, and seeing how we connect beyond the screen. If we’re both feeling comfortable and the vibe is right, maybe a short walk afterward somewhere nearby. Nothing intense — just a chance to keep talking in a more relaxed setting. And if things continue to feel easy and mutual (and only if we both genuinely feel safe), I’d love the idea of eventually cooking a simple meal together at one of our homes. Nothing fancy — just something collaborative and fun. Music in the background, shared laughter in the kitchen, and then relaxing with a movie or TV show we both enjoy. To me, a great first date isn’t about impressing each other — it’s about feeling at ease. Good conversation, mutual respect, and a sense of comfort matter more than anything elaborate. The goal is simple: leave the date feeling glad we met.