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gaxxxxxx

Langley, BC, CAN

Go or meet up at a nice area like Fort Langley and go walking and talking after getting a brew near the river or Derby Reach
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PAxxxxxx

Surrey, BC, CAN

Coffee for an introductory meet-up. Sharing a meal to learn more about you. Culinary adventures for future dates.
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Nexxxxxx

Everton, NTT, GBR

Could be a coffee or a meal in an easy going restaurant where we can dress casually so there is no pressure. Good place to chat and get to know each other better. Maybe a nice walk afterwards.
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Fixxxxxx

San Diego, CA, USA

We can make it simple for starters or use some imagination. It can be as easy as meeting in a cafe for coffee, lunch, etc. however, I'm always open to suggestions!
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Daxxxxxx

Greenfield, MA, USA

Coffee or a lunch meet up would be nice , then go from there, maybe a walk around a quaint town. Take it from there.
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Texxxxxx

Canton, MI, USA

We walk in the park or on the sand at a beach holding hands, talking and laughing~ having a fun time. We watch the sunset as i hold you in my arms. Then we have dinner at a quiet restaurant i open the door for you. When we get to the table i ask where you would like to sit. I pull out your chair so you can sit down. We talk and get to know each other better. After dinner we walk to the car and i open your door for you to get in. I close your door and i drop you off at your place. I open the car door for you and i walk you to the door where you live. I give you a kiss and we take it from there. You decide if you want me to come in or not. If not i then tell you good night and i leave. If you want me to come in I will let you decide what you want us to do.
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Luxxxxxx

Spokane, WA, USA

Coffee,lunch, dinner. Walks. Movies, sports events. Typically coffee first to see if we vibe at all. I would want to text then talk for a bit to get to know each other before meeting in person. Just to make sure we somewhat click. If I’m dating someone, I love it when a man plans the date and shows effort.
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jexxxxxx

Vaudreuil-Dorion, QC, CAN

Meet up for meal or coffee or activity of some kind Discussing, get to know each other a bit better.
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cuxxxxxx

Providence, RI, USA

Meet for a drink of coffee and/or wine. The first date should be very casual so that you can get to know the person!
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Ofxxxxxx

Lafayette, CO, USA

Chatting over some coffee, and seeing if there is a connection on that first meet, its all about the vibe, no strings attached.
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Hyxxxxxx

Toledo, OH, USA

Let's have a video call to start with, then we can meet in person for coffee or lunch, or a beer or glass of wine
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CAxxxxxx

NA, GBR

Albert dock for a coffee and a nice walk holding hands , taking pics for memories , having food and general chat
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Rexxxxxx

Oklahoma City, OK, USA

Let's grab a coffee and see if we see a lunch or dinner in our future! If it's not there, let's just be honest with each other about it. Not everyone is meant to be together!
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Gaxxxxxx

Rancho Cordova, CA, USA

A coffee date for the first meet up. Something low key. A nice conversation. I bet I can make you laugh!
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4fxxxxxx

Saskatoon, SK, CAN

Timmies or some place quiet to be able to hear each other, they have these spots so we can let each other know then they put a minimum character on it
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Maxxxxxx

Weatherford, TX, USA

I’m at the point that I’d prefer a stress test over something romantic. Show me you won’t fall apart, or use me for cover when things get real. Now THAT’S hot!
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RCxxxxxx

Flint, MI, USA

Probably just coffee and a walk. Keep it short and sweet to minimize the awkward small talk that comes with meeting new people. And to suss out if you are one of the puppet masters plotting my 369.
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Bexxxxxx

Plano, TX, USA

Something light and fun. No pressure, just able to talk and see if we vibe or not. I am not a coffee drinker, but will go out for tea or ice cream!!
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Wixxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

Coffee or drinks just to determine if there is mutual interest in person outside of reading a profile and looking at pictures.
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JUxxxxxx

Taber, AB, CAN

Have coffee at a cafe, Maybe Boston pizza for going out. Just get to know eachother 😊 Go for a walk
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