FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

We meet late morning at a cozy local coffee spot, sipping exceptional brews while letting the conversation and laughter flow naturally. From there, we head outdoors for an unhurried, scenic walk—perhaps along a quiet trail at Smith Rock or one of the river paths with our dogs tagging along—we laugh more, trade stories, and enjoy the fresh air and stunning scenery. The evening rounds out with a casual bite to eat in a warm, welcoming setting, preferably somewhere with live music. The good food, playful banter, and undeniable connection leave us feeling comfortable, genuinely seen, and excited for what’s next.

Lets get to bed and do what comes natural. Bareback amd swallower and will top or bottom not picky here

I would like a nice dinner followed by a movie or drinks or whatever my date wants to do im open to almost anything

Walking in park. Visit to free music venue. Low key, inexpensive that allows some activity but leaves room for communication. I am not a big dinner out type person. More of carry it home and eat vibe.

I think it's unfair that the example given was a candlelight dinner and a walk along the beach. Because that sounds absolutely amazing. However, I think that having lunch together at a quiet cafe or bistro is better for getting to know one another. There is less pressure to it. You don't have to dress up and make a hair and nail appointment. A romantic dinner is great for once you have established a rapport. That will be our second or third date option. The location options are a bit limiting, and I thought this was for a hypothetical date.

Breif meeting and see where it goes from there, in public or some type of gathering place. I'm not sure where that would be yet

Just drinks and dinner somewhere quiet. Beachfront would be nice. Nothing to out there. Open to any suggestions

Having an adult adventure such as hiking, camping or something similar maybe even staying in and watching a movie

Such locations might be a trendy mall or a bar in downtown area at a time of low traffic. Not in the middle of high heat or traffic. A dark night in a public place. Low cost. No burden on us. I don't think VC gives me a good look. Or at the airport when you pick me up. I am fully suppressed, undetectable and untransmittable. I follow a diet to help my health. 6'2 and 184lbs.full head of hair.

My ideal date isn’t necessarily about how much money you spend or how fancy the place is. It’s about the person I’m with and whether we’re actually having fun together. I’d love something where we can dress up a little, grab something good to eat or have drinks somewhere with a nice atmosphere, and then do something fun afterward. Maybe live music, dancing, a comedy show, wine tasting, an activity where we can be a little competitive, or even something completely random that neither of us has tried before. I want conversation, though. Real conversation. I want to learn about you, hear your stories, laugh at your ridiculous ones, and see how easily we can talk without constantly checking the time. I want playful flirting, witty banter, and that feeling of “Oh, I could definitely get myself into some trouble with this person.” And honestly, some of my favorite dates could be much simpler. Taking a walk somewhere pretty, getting ice cream, exploring a new place, sitting by the water talking until we realize we’ve been there for hours, or grabbing food and deciding spontaneously where the evening takes us. The perfect date ends with both of us thinking, “That was actually really fun. I want to do that again.” I’m not looking for a perfectly choreographed evening. I’m looking for chemistry, laughter, genuine conversation, attraction, and that comfortable feeling of being able to be ourselves. Basically, give me good company, good conversation, some laughter, a little flirtation, and an opportunity for us to make a memory together. The rest can figure itself out.

A motorcycle ride would be a great first date for me. Dinner and a drink...or 2 at a quiet place where we can talk...not have to shout over the music. We can do that next time :)

Meeting can be very awkward. So I think it is easy to just start with casual drinks. I like the Coffeeshop on Cherry Street.

— first dates I like somewhere quiet enough to actually talk and get to know someone. If there's a second, let's do something active together.

I will try anything go anywhere..would love to be introduced to something new Going to a comedy show would be nice. Have big laughs

Meet for coffee or lunch. I am very social and can hold a great conversation. Make it friends first and then see where it goes from there. No rush.

Viens me parler et on verra où cela pourrait nous amener. Idéalement, je me cherche un ami et plus(partenaire), si affinités.

Something like coffee, a drink or a fun outdoor activity. No pressure just a nice way to meet and see if there’s a connection.

A relatively quiet place where we can all sit and have a meaningful conversation about various topics over a glass of wine or whatever you like

No pressure or rush. Just spend time to get to know each other and see if we are really a fit together.

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