FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Somewhere we can talk and get to know each other. A picnic, beach outing, or a walk in the park. Something fun like a paint-and-sip, mini golf, an arcade or a unique restaurant.

Drinks or coffee is usually a good start. Since I'm pretty sure I mentioned my dog in every other section, might as well keep that trend going here -- take Foxes to a dog park or anywhere that’ll burn off some of his frenetic energy.

Find a comfortable spot with good music where you can talk without feeling rushed. A really good atmosphere Old-School Values, Good Heart, and Looking for Something Real.” “No Games, No Lies—Just Chemistry, Laughter, and Loyalty.” “Life’s Too Short for Half-Hearted Connections. Let’s Make It Count.”

Pour un premier rendez-vous, j'aimerais partager un café ou un petit dîner dans un endroit agréable, apprendre à se connaître, discuter de tout et de rien, rire ensemble et voir si le feeling est au rendez-vous. Pour moi, le plus important n'est pas le lieu, mais la sincérité, le sourire et le plaisir d'être ensemble.

Its all about the company, not the place, not when, its the effort, the willing and enjoy the time, no matter the occasion

Let’s start with sparking an actual conversation instead of just people shopping then we can talk about what to do on a first date.

Coffee somewhere cozy, then a stroll through a nearby bookstore where we each pick a book for the other and talk about why. Or an easy morning walk followed by a good breakfast. I like dates where we can actually hear each other.

It's more about the company than the activity. Something outdoors is always nice. I like a good brewery or anything with a casual vibe.

Sitting on a blanket at the park, talking while listening to music, having wine and snacks. Or having tacos on a patio bar. Anywhere quiet with little distractions where we can be comfortable and learn each other.

Something interactive where both of us can be comfortable. Mini golf, retro arcade, etc.

I'm honest. Ask and I will answer. Something like pool, putt-putt, a comedy show anything to break the ice. Axe throwing, gun range. Pottery or painting. Drag show, music performance. I don't dance, please don't make me, but I am down for lessons to learn. Yes, I need my Latina card taken away. No karaoke on the first meeting. Too shy. Dealer's Choice. Something oddball might win my heart. Comic-Con, glass blowing, literally down for most anything other than running and hiking. I like history, science, music ,etc., museum, ghost hunting, be creative. I want to be intrigued by you. Learn what makes you smile. What talents do you have? I want a person to make an effort based on the little he or she knows about me.If you are not attracted to me, would you finish the date or end it early? You plan it based on my likes. I'm not telling a man how to exactly plan a date. I will give likes, but ultimately, a man decides.

Great to meet for really good lunch somewhere with great company... Maybe a drink if the mood is right?

Let’s meet at a costume party, not knowing each other’s costume and see if we can match. I suggest starting with a video chat or call sooner than later :)

Candle making, fragrance making, pottery, sip n paint, thrifting, flea market, cooking class. . Museums. I would love to attend an art gallery event . I love to create art . Plan a fun date for us and I’ll follow.bowling

As a foodie, my ideal first date would absolutely include food. A glass of wine (one glass, I’m not a true alcohol person) and good conversation would be perfect.

My ideal first date is somewhere we can hear each other clearly and talk to get to know each other's vibe. Usually a coffee or drink somewhere quiet.

Either somewhere vibey and quiet where we can get to know each other or an adventurous activity to share a thrill.

I won't pretend that I don't love a Fancy dinner with plenty of opportunity to talk and laugh at each other awkwardly trying not to look ridiculous while eating and simultaneously pretending not to be mentally sizing one another up... I get why this isn't a favorite for most gentlemen. I find it amusing. Willing to go Dutch for a quality meal that I don't have to cook or clean! Why not try something more adventurous? -Walking down a busy street and popping into different restaurants or stores can be just as entertaining. -Trying out a local attraction you've never paid any attention to. It will make the experience a win, even if we don't hit it off. -Attending a concert or event that is outside of your normal choice might prove to something we can both laugh about later or even become a new shared interest. -I LOVE to dance, so bonus points if your willing to throw your moves out there. No need to be wildly creative - unless that's one of your personal strengths. * I once ended up on a first date wearing ski goggles and getting blasted with a fire extinguisher. Great memory to giggle about now... But I'd prefer something that doesn't create a chemical exposure risk. Coffee dates are out. I'm probably already well caffeinated by the time we'd get together. No movies please, I can watch those while sitting in silence on my own. Plus, I'm that annoying person who figures it out and gets so excited that I spoil your ending.

A nice quiet dinner or quiet place where we can talk and get to know one another. A walk in the park somewhere by the water where we can relax

Trying to start this go around with something new for me and you , something like, inspiration for both of us to enjoy... To do things we've never did before, to create great vibes, in healthy space to grow and learn one another. EXAMPLE I won't us both to leave a stain on each other's brain... LIKE we would both have an shocking moment together.... to pop each other's cherry for a lack of better term, so do take that out of context, GET OUT THE GUTTER LOL. But what I mean I suppose I bout you 🌹 Rose's as long as your couch 🛋, and heath and beautiful 😍. With that being said even if it's not me, anytime you receive some flowers you'll think of me .... DO THE SAME FOR ME , THAT'S WHAT I MEAN BUT POPPING EACH OTHERS CHERRY 🍒. BUT DOING THINGS WE'VE NEVER DONE BEFORE....BE BLESSED. # THE BOOK OF JOB....