FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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For me, I just want my date to feel comfortable. Doesn't matter to me if it's just coffee. Or we can go.... ROLLERSKATING!!! haha
I would prefer to chat a bit first to make sure we at least enjoy talking to each other. We've all had bad dates and none of us want to waste our time.
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My first date what to expect a beautiful women that’s fit! Coffee tea mabe even a drink? Hopefully not to broken talk about great thing plot adventure and be attracted to each other! Christian above all things just what for my prayers be answered!
Category: Cafe
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I’d really like to just get to know you. Meet for early morning coffee, have conversation, and go from there. I love waking up before the world does and getting that first cup of joe and planning the day. We could plan our next date if we hit it off.
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Relaxed environment where can get to know each other. Rest is open. Food. Drink. Wherever the date takes us...
Category: Wine Bar
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I'm not fussy, very chill, flexible, open minded, kind, and fun! I enjoy most things in life. Just need someone to enjoy the moments with. Dinner, drinks, a movie, a nice walk on the beach, good conversation to get to know each other. Let's see if we have natural chemistry and if we enjoy each others company and compliment one another.
Category: Walking or Hiking
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I love kayaking, mtn biking, the woods, wild swimming, and trying new things. Exhaust me on a trail and we’ll probably hit it off. I like a quiet corner in a bar (I very rarely drink) or restaurant and hours of good conversation til the place closes down. Music is always great! Ping pong? Why not. I like meeting new people. It’s like reading memoir. Learning what makes ppl tick.
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Meet up for a drink or a cup of coffee. Talk a bit, get a vibe and go from there. Very laid back and easy going.
Category: Drinks
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A coffee date or grab a coffee and head to the ocean. Nothing loud but somewhere we can chat and learn about one another
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Having a nice meal with a glass of wine. Cuddling up on a cold night and watching a movie while sitting by a fire. Walking through the woods in the mountains. Playing in the water and sitting on the beach having cocktails in the summer sun. Anything with my dogs. Feeling the embrace of someone special and sharing affections like holding hands and a romantic kiss
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A sunny patio at a cafe drinking, noshing, chatting.. I guess a cloudy rainy day works too.. With the right company. I love a good hike too, but not sure I want to traipse off into the woods with a stranger. And why do I need to use 200 characters? I shouldn't have to write a chapter here to describe one date.. Oh yay I did it!
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Drinks on a patio to me is a great first date. Just talking and getting to know each other. And I may beat you at a game of darts....
Category: Drinks
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Coffee. That’s probably it. Something quick and easy—basically a speed date, except it’s just the two of us. If we hit it off, we can figure out what comes next. I’m not really a “plan an impressive first date” person. I’d rather keep it simple and see if there’s a reason for a second one.
Category: Cafe
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Simple , natural, informative….. maybe a little messaging back-and-forth to find out some basics and then possibly an activity to break the ice with a meal afterwards
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Something very casual to start. No reason to spend a lot of money on food if there's not any mutual attraction.
Category: Lunch
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Let’s take a walk, maybe with our dogs, and see how the conversation goes. Hopefully we click and grab lunch afterward.
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Food trucks, car shows, farmers market, arts market, dog park, glass blowing, sky diving, and roller coasters, walk on the beach, drive on the beach, even better!
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A nice road trip, we jump in the car and just drive. Having deep conversations while driving, find a hole in the wall restaurant to get good food, drive to a park with a lake, sit by the water and just get lost in one another
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Pike Place market for a snack and walk through the stalls to get an idea of the quality of the wares sellers are producing these days. Window shopping with an ice cream or crepe or smoked salmon.
Category: Errand Dating
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I dont think the first time we meet as a date. I look at it more like a meet and greet. We meet up at a neutral place where we can chat and see how things go. If things go well let the day leads us. No matter if there is chemistry or not always looking for good conversation and new friendships.
Category: Drinks
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I like a first date with someone new to have a little mystery to it. Grab a cup of coffee or a drink, go somewhere we can talk, laugh, flirt, and see if the spark is actually there. Maybe live music, a walk somewhere, or something spontaneous that gives us the chance to get a little lost in the moment.
I’m drawn to good conversation, playful teasing, undeniable chemistry, and the kind of eye contact that makes you forget what you were about to say. And if the vibe is right, I’d rather let the night unfold naturally than plan every minute of it. I’m all for being spontaneous and seeing what happens next. 😉
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