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Un café suivi d'une promenade et discuté. Sa peut même finir par un bon cinéma, ensuite voir ou que cela peut mener
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Something simple but enjoyable, a way to learn more about each other without all the pressure of a formal dinner. Maybe coffee and conversation.
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or a first date, I love keeping things warm, elegant, and completely pressure-free. I think the perfect formula is a 'Coffee & Walk' or finding a cozy, quiet spot for a great conversation over a refreshing mocktail.
We’d start by breaking the ice in a comfortable atmosphere, sharing a few laughs, and genuinely listening to each other's stories. If the chemistry feels right, I love suggesting a relaxed walk through a scenic park or a nice trail nearby. To me, maturity means knowing how to make a woman feel safe, respected, and completely comfortable to be herself from the very first minute. It’s all about good energy, zero rush, and seeing if our vibes naturally connect.
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So cliche I know, but a cup of coffee at a small cafe to introduce yourself, is quite enough, don't you think?
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I prefer simple dates where we can talk and get to know each other. A walk in the park, coffee, lunch, visiting a bookstore, or attending a community event sound more appealing than anything fancy. Good conversation and genuine connection matter most.
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Coffee, and a walk and talk. Something simple causal, form is something like dinner, though no show defeats the purpose if your trying to get to know someone if you can talk.
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Maybe something like a coffee shop (not Starbucks). Even hanging out at a Dairy Queen would be a great idea
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Up for whatever honestly- not picky- just looking for someone to have fun with! Coffee, drinks, dancing, whatever!
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I believe a good first date would be getting coffee and going for a walk. Something casual so we can see things go.
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A coffee or a bite to eat maybe a walk with nature
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Grab a coffee and go for a walk around a lake or beach and get to know one another’s chemistry and if it’s there or not with no pressure. Try to make you laugh is a bonus.
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I'm a hopeless romantic! However, meeting for fresh coffee, tea, or drinks will work!
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Keep it simple and light - coffee or drink and get to know each other.
Life is good - hopefully we share a smile and some levity. I’m still very new at this and will try to not let out my inner doofus! That comes later.
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The nice weather is here now so how about
a market, a coffee, drink or lunch? What do you think! Something where we can talk and get to know each other, but also non committal so if we’re not compatible it’s easy to leave.
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I love going to coffee shops. My Peer Support Specialist Mentor from NAMI by Your Side and I recently went to a coffee shop called Kei Coffee Shop. It was amazing they have awesome banana pudding and great drinks! She also suggested another coffee shop called September that I haven't been to maybe we could try that one out or go to one that has an open mic. I'd love to go to an open mic coffee shop and do some poetry. I'd also like to try singing some of my songs at the open mic if possible. I also have another coffee shop in mind called The Night Owl in Fullerton, CA that is an open mic on Tuesday nights at 7:00 p.m. I think that will be a great spot for a first date. We could buy some drinks and some pastries and talk about whatever the evening events bring about.
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I think coffee at acute Cafe is the best first date giving you time to really get to know your date. Lots of opportunity for deep conversation. And, if you want to extend the date is easy to go do something after.
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I don't drink alcohol. I don't mind if you do but for a first date I'd much rather grab some coffee and chat! Let's get to know each other and see if we vibe!
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I would like to go for coffee at a cafe so we can sit and chit chat get to know each other I am a down-to-earth person.
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Grab a coffee or a drink and see what happens. Take a walk or something similar, as the first date is all about getting to know each other.
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I imagine a first date is simple...perhaps a beverage in a hip coffee shop and, with luck, more than an hour has passed and we're still deeply engaged in a delightful conversation.
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