FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Depends on with who I mean this is a dating site to get to know people. My ideal date with someone I am interested In would be planed by him . Something that was thought about . My love language is acts of service and food lol just get to know each other

A pleasant conversation for an hour before we shake hands and never see each other again naw fuck that. Let’s dance on the beach and enjoy the sunset.

Let’s draw 4 each other, drop 2 beers back, reverse the things in rhyme and play, skip together, get wild for each other, become uno

ADVENTURES, DETOURS & THE ART OF BEING COURTED My favorite dates aren't necessarily fancy; they're thoughtful, curious, and a little unexpected. Give me good company, laughter, and the possibility of an adventure, and we're already off to a promising start. Take me outdoors: winding trails, hidden waterfalls, mountain overlooks, gardens, sunsets, and stargazing. Or let's get delightfully sidetracked in a bookstore, antique shop, museum, planetarium, quirky roadside attraction, or farmers market. Food? Absolutely. I'm always up for tacos, hole-in-the-wall gems, trying unfamiliar dishes, or sharing dessert. I also love arcades, pinball, mini golf, live music, festivals, and a little friendly competition. And sometimes tea and conversation that accidentally lasts three hours beats any grand plan. But here's the really attractive part: I love being planned for. Not because I can't take the lead (oh, I can), but because there's something tender and exciting about someone saying, "I thought you'd enjoy this. I've got it." Thoughtfulness matters more than money, and effort is infinitely more charming than extravagance. Even better? Take me into your world. Show me the hobby you adore, the place you return to, the weird little thing you can't stop learning about. I want to know what lights you up, not just have you check boxes on my list. And I'll gladly return the magic: planning adventures, surprising you, learning your interests, and making space for you to relax and feel cherished, too. We can take turns leading, following, and discovering. No auditions. No elaborate productions. Just two curious humans making an ordinary day unexpectedly memorable. Your move: where would you take me for our first little adventure?

Coffee, Dog park bar, or maybe a brewery... something relaxed, low commitment, and close to the parking lot incase I need to run away from you. :)

I’ll pick the place and time. You just let me pick you up and we’ll go from there. Put on that dress or your favorite outfit and let’s go!!! Live music wine tasting some dancing would be ideal.

I’m thinking we find somewhere neither of us has been before, grab something good to eat, and see where the conversation takes us. I’m not opposed to a little friendly competition either. I like a woman who can talk a little trash and back it up. Nothing too complicated. Just two people enjoying themselves and seeing if there’s a reason to do it again.

First a video call within the first 48 hours of matching. I've found that checking virtual 'in person' energy is a pretty good indicator. If that goes good, let's meet for a casual coffee, tea or a Gin & Tonic to see if we connect, then go from there. Somewhere quite, so we can talk and be heard.

Great conversation, plenty of laughter, and chemistry that makes us both forget to check our phones. Start with drinks or dinner somewhere with a great atmosphere, followed by a spontaneous adventure. The perfect date isn’t about where we go, but how much we enjoy each other’s company and whether neither of us wants the night to end.

Go to beach look at water, go on jet ski go to cute pub, 100 characters hey, that makes sense. You should always write 100 characters when describing what you’d like to do on a date, just meet up as friends do high-fives, do things that feel good stuff like that.

Meet me at the dog park. If you don’t like dogs, don’t even match with me. Fact: dogs are better than humans.

Let’s grab a bevy and sit by the river??! Float maybe?? or find a mountain to climb. Also why do they force you to write 100 characters lol

Whether it’s getting lost in a good movie on the big screen or sharing slow morning conversations over warm coffee, I’d love to connect—no expectations, just two people seeing where a good spark might lead.

Ideal date can’t happen in this century. I’d like to pick her up in my shuttle and go to another world for dinner

I dont have guidelines or expectations for dates. I would prefer to meet somewhere that you feel safe or comfortable to talk or walk together. The older I get, the more I become interested in simple socialization or peacefully doing nothing at all.

I usually like Simple Dates likes walks or Malls. Somewhere my date can feel comfortable and Safe. I am open to breakfast my favorite or Tacos for lunch or Dinner.

Drinks at a nice bar sounds good to me. If we talk or chat for awhile first I’d be open to other suggestions.

Mainly wanting a connection and commited or relationship. Open to friends as well, but this is a dating app

Let's go try on weird clothes at a thrift store. We could sit on a bench and swap emotional stories of insecurities? We could go sit at the airport and people watch and have an over priced lunch date .. Idk ... we could meet at a trendy café with couches and chat about ????

Take the lead, show some effort. Something outdoors or that we can interact with each other. Are you adventurous because I’m a quick learner.