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Whatever we agree on, it should be a mutual decision. But if you would prefer I can plan it just maybe give me some hints.
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First date ideas....maybe vinyl record shopping, a good cup of coffee, people watching somewhere? Somewhere where we can still converse with each other.
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Whatever we mutually enjoy doing just as long as we have each other’s attention. First impressions are everything
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Infinite possibilities. Honestly, I have to talk a little bit and get to know someone before I can really plan the date. They are not cookie cutter for me.
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You just make the effort to make the first Date Happen…………………………………….I mean we are here for a reason
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Coffee, a walk, lunch, dinner. How about a bike ride? I'm not particular. Whatever you're comfortable with.
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Grab drinks at Little Darlin, have a good conversation, and maybe grab some food while we’re there. Or we could go to Los Ojos or a good Mexican spot, get a couple drinks, share some food, and just see where the night takes us. Nothing overly planned, just good conversation, good food, and someone I genuinely enjoy being around.
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A place with great food and music where we can just talk about life, goals and dreams. Being open and honest helps determine whether a second date will happen.
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Tarot card readings at the local coffee shop. I also love gay clubs. I sleep with crystals under my pillow so I can dream about you.
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No movies on the first date. Dinner and conversation. My question will be…… if you had a million dollars and could travel anywhere, where would it be and what will you do. If I say lay on a beach and you say climb Mount Everest then we know this won’t work. That’s an example
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Let’s keep it simple and meet for a couple of drinks or coffee to see how we get on and go from there. We can plan the second date together :)
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Nourishment, libation (mock for me), and good conversation. Not too loud or too crowded. Perfect balance
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Meet at a safe place and watch a sunset together, or take a walk and talk. Coffee or drinks, but prefer to be at a place where I can listen and hear what you have to say.
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My ideal date would be something where we can all relax, have fun, and naturally build chemistry. I’d start with a nice dinner somewhere with good food and a good atmosphere, then maybe go bowling, hit an arcade, or grab drinks and listen to some music.
After that, if the vibe is right and we’re all feeling comfortable, I’d love to end the night somewhere private where we can relax, talk, flirt, and see where the chemistry takes us. I’m not trying to force anything, I want it to feel natural and mutual for everyone.
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Something simple and relaxed, like dinner or grabbing a drink. Something where we can talk and get to know each other without pressure. Good company matters more to me than anything fancy.
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walking the lakeshore downtown Chicago to having a late night burger and coffee with a walk and site seeing. I’m happy to go out feel free and have a good time. Im also open to brainstorm and come up with an idea.
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Anything and everything that would make us and keep us entertained. Life these days is fast and boring so let’s keep it entertaining lol
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My idea first date would be meeting at a public setting. Somewhere simple like a cute coffee shop or bookstore.
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My life has revolved around drugs the last ten years and now that I’m sober I’m starting to see what life has to offer. So id have to say any kind of date weather it’s hiking or at a restaurant is fine by me.
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Honestly getting to know the person first and what they like and base it on that. Or going to a museum or aquarium
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