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It's been a minute since I've been on a first date. I think a walk with coffee in hand and go from there.... I'm sure we can figure it out?
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Dinner, an event, something causual. Honestly, if the connection is there, how we spend the first date is fine.
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Let’s let’s grab some ice cream and go to Minnehaha Falls. We can go find a good sunset spot or people watching spot. I can make you any color rose you’d like for you to keep out of plastic spoons. I’m up for anything with zero expectations.
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My ideal date would be going to the beach, having a picnic, and walking while we talk. It could also be going for coffee or sharing a meal.
Before that, there would have to be a video call.
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It really depends but I’m a fan of something easy that allows us to get to know each other in a non-interview-ish way. A walk through a park, beach or window shopping. If there’s a spark we continue the day to wherever it may lead.
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Maybe meet at a local dive bar, go camping, watch a movie, honestly I’m not a picky person. Do love the outdoors!
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We absolutely just have to hang out first. Don’t be afraid to strike up a conversation shoot me a message. Let’s talk. Then let’s figure out where we’re gonna go eat and after dinner if we want to go our separate ways that’s fine. We had a nice dinner. Now if it works out we can do something else, maybe breakfast, a sunset, a walk, or anything else we can think of.
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Meeting for a drink then dinner, Ideally someplace quiet where we can hear each other. Maybe for a second date, if you’re feeling adventurous going to some country bars and dancing to some classics, or going on a boat ride on one of the finger lakes.
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Go out to dinner get to know each other. See if we have any chemistry together. See if we can set up a second date.
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I don't even want to think about first dates, I just want to fast forward to us slowly rubbing our aching knees together.
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Pizza or Asian food to see if this would be a waste of time or not. Friends first. If we can’t be platonic friends then we’re wasting each others time.
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A good dinner, a little playful competition, a late-night drive, and ending the night wishing we didn’t have to say goodbye just yet.
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Raiders 2026 Watch a game at my place.
We can get a beer, smoke a joint. Check the food on the grill. Look at your fine ass.
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Nothing to extravagant but something special and unique! Let’s go somewhere we can both be ourselves in a location that is not too loud. A great restaurant, coffee(great way to my heart!) a cool bar & we sit in a booth in the corner, a short beautiful hike, day trip to the lake, or run me my money on a game of horse or teach me how to do something new!
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Dinner and a movie then walk in the park afterwards. I guess it depends if it’s the first date or the fifth date.
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Something fun and laid-back where we can actually get to know each other. Maybe coffee and a spontaneous adventure, exploring somewhere new, or finding a little hole-in-the-wall restaurant with amazing food. Good conversation, effortless laughter, playful banter, and enough chemistry that we both lose track of time. I’m not worried about extravagant plans. I’d rather have an unforgettable connection than an expensive dinner. Bonus points if neither of us wants the night to end.
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Wine or coffee. Talk. Walk. Talk. Wine and dinner. walk. Talk until we open our authentic selves.
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Whatever makes my lady happy. I’m a pleaser at heart and that’s all I know. We can eat a steak and shrimp or we can bowling and eat pizza
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Honestly as long as you think it through any date good be good I’m not picky lol. Although I would definitely love a back of the truck bed movie night under the stars.
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