FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

I am a guy that values time spent with said special person vs the activity. I do love new experiences, but it doesn’t matter to me if it was something we’ve done a hundred times already, as long as we enjoy I’m alright. If I had to choose though, I’m very spontaneous and adventurous so it wouldn’t really be something as basic and sitting and eating, but I love to eat so dinner after.

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Just a nice evening with a lady who’s will to go for coffee, a bevy on the patio or dinner. Maybe take in a movie, hockey game.

Somewhere allowing us to be face to face, truly feel each other out and share conversation and hopefully some smiles and a few laughs.

I would say dinner maybe go park out by the lake and get to know eachother maybe walk the boardwalk.

Depends on with who I mean this is a dating site to get to know people. My ideal date with someone I am interested In would be planed by him . Something that was thought about . My love language is acts of service and food lol just get to know each other

Take u out to eat, your restaurant of choice, I’m buying. Then we will go get a few drinks and again I’m buying. And finally end the night cap at my place with a projector outside on my garage with a bomb fire going. Your choice of movie, maybe some s’mores if you’re up for it, and again I’m buying. And finally end the night with a good night kiss and take u where u need to go, or if u want u can always come stay with me. And if you’re shy and don’t think u can make all those choices and decisions in a day, don’t worry I’ll make em for us.

Either some kind of sit down type thing (dinner, coffee, lunch) or an activity we could enjoy together. I’m looking for a guy who’s a risk taker here - plan the whole thing and tell me time, day and if I should wear something nice or my hiking shoes and don’t forget the flowers. It could be chill like a walk at a park I’ve never been to or we are taking a sailing class on the lake. I want to be surprised, but most of all, I want a peak into your world so pick an activity that you really love to do. I promise I will be a good sport and will participate in whatever it is. (Unless it’s a food eating contest then I’d be happy to be your biggest cheerleader on the sidelines lol)

Coffee, Activity, Outdoors nothing crazy just a moment to connect or not, before investing too much time and energy.

A pleasant conversation for an hour before we shake hands and never see each other again naw fuck that. Let’s dance on the beach and enjoy the sunset.

A nice dinner, good conversation, lots of laughs, and a late-night drive with music. I love a date that feels natural, fun, and full of good vibes.

Grab a coffee or other beverage, maybe something to eat, go for a walk/hike/bike ride, enjoy the weather or find some place with a nice fire pit. Basically I'm open, as long as it's something where we can get to know each other.

ADVENTURES, DETOURS & THE ART OF BEING COURTED My favorite dates aren't necessarily fancy; they're thoughtful, curious, and a little unexpected. Give me good company, laughter, and the possibility of an adventure, and we're already off to a promising start. Take me outdoors: winding trails, hidden waterfalls, mountain overlooks, gardens, sunsets, and stargazing. Or let's get delightfully sidetracked in a bookstore, antique shop, museum, planetarium, quirky roadside attraction, or farmers market. Food? Absolutely. I'm always up for tacos, hole-in-the-wall gems, trying unfamiliar dishes, or sharing dessert. I also love arcades, pinball, mini golf, live music, festivals, and a little friendly competition. And sometimes tea and conversation that accidentally lasts three hours beats any grand plan. But here's the really attractive part: I love being planned for. Not because I can't take the lead (oh, I can), but because there's something tender and exciting about someone saying, "I thought you'd enjoy this. I've got it." Thoughtfulness matters more than money, and effort is infinitely more charming than extravagance. Even better? Take me into your world. Show me the hobby you adore, the place you return to, the weird little thing you can't stop learning about. I want to know what lights you up, not just have you check boxes on my list. And I'll gladly return the magic: planning adventures, surprising you, learning your interests, and making space for you to relax and feel cherished, too. We can take turns leading, following, and discovering. No auditions. No elaborate productions. Just two curious humans making an ordinary day unexpectedly memorable. Your move: where would you take me for our first little adventure?

Something easy and casual. Maybe the driving range or walk around the park. A simple patio with live music works too.

I havent really dated. So give me a time and place and ill be there. Im always up for trying new things.

Let me kick your butt in some pool at my place or teach you how to play. Then maybe some movies and downtime after to get to know each other better.

A spontaneous road trip, a cute little coffee shop, exploring a museum, or walking along the beach while talking about everything and nothing. Good conversation, lots of laughter, thoughtful gestures, and a little romance. It’s not about how much you spend, but how you make me feel.

I’ll pick the place and time. You just let me pick you up and we’ll go from there. Put on that dress or your favorite outfit and let’s go!!! Live music wine tasting some dancing would be ideal.

Having some coffee or dinner and just chatting to get to know each other. Maybe even a little bowling to learn more about each other.

I love a good mix of romance and fun! One day we could get dressed up for dinner at a rooftop restaurant, and the next we could be racing go-karts, playing paintball, or even sumo wrestling (yes I’m serious lol). I’m equally down for dinner and a movie or trying something completely new. A little romance, a little friendly competition, and lots of laughs sounds like a perfect date to me!