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One that leads to a second.
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candle lit dinner maybe. then a nice walk in a park or through downtown. maybe a movie or some good ex throwing. something fun and interesting.
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Just taking it easy,Know each other. Dinner date Being at home is best way. Little walk,Holding hands.
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I'd like to include you in whatever is going on currently. If I'm going to a concert, out to skydive, craving a good meal, want to see a new exhibit come and join me. I want plenty of time to talk and interact in different environments to see how we vibe together and explore each others personalities.
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Coffee or ice cream Simple, short, and easy to extend if it’s going well
• Tacos or casual food spot Fun, relaxed, no awkward silence
Why it works: You can talk, laugh, and leave wanting more
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Slightly Romantic but Not Too MuchGrab a drink or dessert afterward if the vibe is good
Why it works: Romantic without pressure or formality
• Wine bar, cocktail lounge, or rooftop bar
• One or two drinks max
Why it works: Shows confidence and maturity without going overboard
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The first date is usually awkward especially for me since I am not that 20-Question type of woman. I like to sit back and observe and I usually don't lead off the conversations. The first date will definitely let me know if I want a second date. I'm always up for food and drinks and maybe something out the ordinary. Either way, try to make the best out of the day.
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I like to live for the moment planning is not really my thing I like to just see where things go and enjoy the moment
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Is meeting for coffee considered a first date? I don't think so. Coffee meets are like a soft opening. We can plan something if the vibe is right.
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Well, if we get along, we could always work on our rap careers together. My favorite rapper is Korean - Agust D. Go listen to him, because that will be our goal.
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We can go to the Adult playground inside the Luxor hotel. There are interactive activities and adult beverages.
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Watching my wife get sexed, and her watching me get sexed. Into threesomes. HIV test before sex!
Condom a must!
Couples dynamic to complex for us.
Husband straight, wife bi curious.
Adventurous, friendly, love to laugh, down to Earth and Horny.
We host. Huge yard and pool.
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I’m a simple guy. The first date doesn’t have to be a big production. I like something relaxed where we can actually talk and feel each other’s energy.
A good coffee spot, a quiet walk by the water, a casual dinner, or even something easy like grabbing ice cream and taking a drive. Anything low-pressure, real, and comfortable.
The goal is just to get to know each other and see if the connection feels natural.
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Shooting pool, throwing darts, an arcade... somewhere we can have fun even if we don't click on a certain level.
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A walk in the park, dinner and a good movie. Maybe an ice cream cone afterwards or a nice hot cup coffee.
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It's been awhile since I've been star gazing at night but it would definitely be a suitable first date
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Just something chillin like Art museum or going to the beach late night/early morning. I'm not the best at planning. I wish I could find someone who likes roller skating cuz I would love to do that more.
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1st choices,amusement park, we can go simpler like sight seeing, a walk through the park the stars as the background, the beach, the stars.
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Doing something active together. Then walking around, vibing with each other getting some ice cream.
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I don't like to make first date long just a simple meet and greet to get a feeling of wof compatibility Just a quick low key meal or just coffee and a side.. I like to set a meet and end time even if things go well I stick to limit so no awkwardness of when to leave if things go well between both then we make more plans if not I'm always about just being because friends. Always looking for hanging out pals
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Enlighten me, take me all the way and see what else is there.........................................
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