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Im open to doing something new and fun. Either outdoorsy or relaxed and chill indoors im pretty easy. Love some good restaurant food or cocktails a museum, music or something outdoors too like the above.
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literally anything that doesn't involve kids activities.
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(I have to start by saying the category options are terrible, and "random nighttime activities" sounds so dirty.) I bring a 6 pack of bottle of your favorite drink, pick you up (wherever that may be, in today's world I understand safety), and we find a quiet spot near the water or a back road. Pop the tailgate, talk over our drinks, and watch the stars "pop out", as my daughter says. We spend the night talking and learning things about each other. When we're ready to go, I'll take you home/back to your car/etc. And you know what? I'm not going to push you for a first date kiss. If it's right, it'll happen. The only expectation I bring with me is that you enjoy the evening, even if we don't decide to pursue anything.
If you'd prefer a public place for the first date (again, completely understand), I would be more than happy to oblige. We can go to supper, a bar, or anywhere else you feel safe.
This is as much about you as it is me, so I'll fully understand and respect your decision.
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something a little active with a drink
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Anything that brings on a conversation between us. I want to get to know someone. Movies are great, but you can't get to know a person if you have to be quiet. JMO
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Just meet up and by conversation that's hot flow having a great time just being spontaneous. This could go all the way to the next step or leave both of us feeling another date can't come fast enough.
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anything there trying do lol
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The perfect date for me would start with good food, drinks and conversation. Afterwards, once we've gotten a little more comfortable with each other a nice walk, drive or spontaneous activity is a good way to end the night✨
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Let’s discuss it it please!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!????????
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Lets go to lunch or dinner and chit chat for awhile to see if we vibe together. You can tell alot about a person by how you vibe at a dinner table. Afterwards, we go sky diving, bowling, mini golf, or do an Escape Room or sumthin
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Take the time to enjoy each other. Get caught up in the moment while taking each other. So much fun so much to share when each one of us lets go and finds that special play to fan the fire. Time and energy so positive and fresh to be.
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A nice dinner , movie date , I'm really not picky as long as we are having fun . Arcade or bowling . Something that we will both enjoy . Something to make us forget about time, just having a good time altogether.
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The perfect first date idea for me is going bowling and then going out to eat. I bowl pretty well and I'm very competitive. After a couple of hours of beating you in bowling we can go out to eat, maybe get some ice cream after
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My idea of a first date would be visiting a Low key spot with soft music and great wine. It would be great to meet someone that stimulates my mind, is a great listener, and knows how to navigate a conversation without awkward moments of silence.
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Grab somethin to eat, go bowling, play some mini golf or go fishing.
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Let's do something fun like skating, bowling, axe throwing, indoor skydiving, mini golf, karaoke, or D&B. Getting to know each other is so much better when we're both engaged in fun activities. Then we follow up with dinner.
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How about meeting at a roof top restaurant bar overlooking the city on a beautiful afternoon trying appetizers and specialty drinks. Not your cup of tea? Well let's each bring something to snack on and drink and meet by the lake ready to go kayaking.
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Will be something spontaneous, adventurous, with a little bit of riskiness LOL if you're able to combine those three then I think we may be able to have a great time but always open to different ideas
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Your place or nice room. Order out or delivery.
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Something low stress. Not expensive. Preferably somewhere quiet so we can talk and get to know each other better. I'm not sure going to a hockey game is a great idea for a first date. They're kind of expensive and to tell you the truth I'm not really interested in sports anymore at all.
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