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JExxxxxx

Las Vegas, NV, USA

I'm new to Las Vegas and would love to be shown around. I love nightlife, and restaurants. Sightseeing and exploring is a must, but I also love those quiet nights at home. I also love the movies but not the ideal first date.
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eixxxxxx

Phoenix, AZ, USA

this is the hard part. I'm stuck between wanting IRL connections and wanting to wave at each other from across the park. we'll play it by ear. maybe take our dogs for a walk, or ride the e scooters at Tempe Town Lake, idk
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Gexxxxxx

Athens, OH, USA

Shouldn't go to movies for first dates cause there's hardly any talking cause it's a movie and you sit in a dark room with a lot of people... I don't have many opinions on dates cause honestly haven't been on many the majority I've been on I've paid for soooo I tend to shy away from it often due to it being weird
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FWxxxxxx

Lewisville, TX, USA

You text: I am horny I reply: Ok I am on my way We meet, flirt, have a cocktail, some laughs then...... We Smash and have a great night. The End Then we await a message from each other for the next time ๐Ÿ˜ƒ
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Loxxxxxx

Peabody, MA, USA

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spxxxxxx

South Bend, IN, USA

A concert or ballgame! Maybe bowling or out to dinner! Go to a bar and shoot pool and talk shit lol We could go to the beach or hangout by the pool! Maybe something like ice skating or roller skating I'm game for whatever and won't cry about it!
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loxxxxxx

Heflin, AL, USA

Location isn't required. Honestly I'm up for most 1st date options as long as we can talk and get to know one another. Ax throwing, bowling, arcade? Somewhere that is fun and allows some of the pressure to subside. Lunch or Dinner is always a reliable standby
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fixxxxxx

Finedon, NTH, GBR

Something fun but where we could also have a good chat too so we could get to know each other properly. As for what the fun is, maybe bowling, ice skating, or an escape room? Certainly something with an element of competition, teamwork or both as that would be a great way to see how we would work together in a relationship
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IMxxxxxx

Brooklyn, NY, USA

Sunset on the beach with wine, music/dancing, and conversation. After the sun sets and if we're still vibing, get cupcakes/dessert...and if we're still vibing after that, the obvious next step...straight to my uncle who's a wedding officiant so he can marry us off. Sound fun?
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poxxxxxx

Portland, OR, USA

Let's make out in a cemetary. I mean, we can definately have dinner and drinks, first, but when the night ends up where you find yourself making out in a cemetary...that's a story and it's worth telling.
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Asxxxxxx

Charlotte, NC, USA

My perfect date depends on the communication we have before we plan the date. To me there's no cookie cutter date, it all depends on the person. Something has to spark before we make plans to me and when that time comes I make a general plan but I'm flexible based on the chemistry.
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Toxxxxxx

Mesa, AZ, USA

A funny movie, some wine or flower, (both?), and then the fun begins. My tongue is split for a reason. If your not into that, I'm not for you.
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Hoxxxxxx

Milwaukee, WI, USA

Paint & sip, go carting, zip lining, followed by a nice romantic dinner. I also am a chef but we'll save the me cooking for you for the next date if you're lucky๐Ÿ€ I really enjoy deep conversations and nature walks.
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chxxxxxx

Roswell, GA, USA

How about we just play it by ear. I can dress up or down. Act right or act out. I'm southern bred and a Dawgs fan. Also love the Lakers, pool, blah blah blah. Is this 200 yet???????!!!!!!!!!!!?????????
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zaxxxxxx

Akaa, Pirkanmaa, FIN

Open mic, karaoke, poetry night, anything goes. Stroll at The canal on summer night with snacks or picnic at The park. How about midnight skinny dipping or skating in The moonlight? Urban concert or dance performance, l do not care as long as l have The best company..
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CAxxxxxx

Saint Francis, WI, USA

First we get a couple of drinks to loosen the tongue. Then dinner to absorb and dampen the alcohol and then a we share a sweet treat because sweet treatsale people feel good. We can plan on specific things to do on the following dates
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Caxxxxxx

Greenwich, GRE, GBR

Something active but chilled like junk yard golf, axe throwing or flight club (darts)
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thxxxxxx

Sacramento, CA, USA

Meet up for some margaritas ๐Ÿน๐Ÿ˜‹
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hexxxxxx

Stafford, VA, USA

I'd love to go to a concert for a first date but I have always felt like that's a terrible idea. Like you can't really talk to someone in a crowd or even sitting at the venue. So drinks? At least the first round is on me, who knows, I feel like it's better to get to know each other in person than through text anyways.
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sixxxxxx

Fort Worth, TX, USA

Probably a simple dinner date, or maybe a Starbucks coffee date. Depending on how we interact maybe go bowling or play some pool? But I prefer simple at first to see how we jive with each other, and then go from there.
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