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I could do just about anything, movies, coffee, park, lunch, dinner, burn some gas, cook a meal and chill it's doesn't matter as long as we have a good time ☺️
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Where it feels like hanging out with your best friend , no pressure . Hopefully a feeling of peace..
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Let's do something different! Let's get lost in the city. Go carts 🏎️ or a gun Range?
Even a simple car ride with conversation & music is top tier. I'm laid back and no our first date can't be in the house!
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Nothing extravagant unless you plan to keep up that momentum. Let's do something that excites you or shows that you're interested in learning more about me. For example, even if you don't golf, knowing I do and love it, taking me even out for a driving range date would be nice lol.
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My ideal date is to have an intellectual conversation while walking a scenic route through a beautiful destination. As are hunger begins to set , we stop to admire and\ indulge in each others conversation as well as in a beautiful charcuterie board with petite four's, cannapes, everything to give an ambiance of a grand walk in the park.
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Key note: I live far from any metropolitan area. If the vibe is right, I will make plans to meet you. A walk in the park is ideal, coffee and/or food. Maybe a paint activity. The idea is to get to know each other and just have fun.
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I'm a huge breakfast fan but also easily manipulated with seafood. I love the waterfront and the aquarium or anything active. Getting breakfast and walking downtown sounds fun too.
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Cafe.. Kava.. Park ... Walk.... Laughing... People Watching... Sunset... Anything with any of those will be ideal for my preference but it's not all about me. It's about a joint effort to make both of us comfortable.
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Maybe just meet for coffee/tea or an ice cream date. Bowling or top golf. An activity is always a great 1st date.
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Friday night ice skating? I can teach you, or of you know what you're doing, you can teach me some things.
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Attending an outdoor event, weather permitting. Possibly a concert or car show event. Finding a common relax8ng gathering we can get to know each other.
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I would like to Go to the beach and then this burrito place called dakines. It’s a great place to get to know peoples
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A simple but well-planned date—something thoughtful where we can actually talk and get to know each other. I’m drawn to a man who shows genuine interest, asks real questions, and knows how to be present in the moment. It’s not about doing anything over the top, but about the effort, the energy, and how he carries himself. I appreciate someone who’s intentional, communicates well, and makes the time we spend together feel easy and meaningful. If there’s natural chemistry, good conversation, and a sense that we’re both aligned in what we’re looking for, that’s the kind of start I value.
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Ideally, something that allows us to get to know one another. I'm a sucker for someone who makes a plan and some points of conversation.
First meet, probably a Cafe, Barnes or dine somewhere for drinks and conversation. A public walk.
Later meet, I am down for trail walk or planning a light hike.
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A no pressure lunch or coffee and dessert outing followed by a walk around a local lake or a visit to an outdoor art or ethnic festival.
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Grab some coffee and kush Speaking the truth with good vibes. Day time public activities. lunch and a blunt.
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A walk is always a great start — bonus points if you have a favorite trail to share. Add a London Fog (extra sweet, obviously), good conversation, and I’m happy.
I enjoy getting to know someone through real conversation — stories, goals, a bit of humor… nothing forced, just something that feels easy and natural.
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Going out and walking around a city until we find somewhere we both would like to stop and grab a drink or bite to eat.
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Disclosure in a safe and romantic environment where we can talk about everything that has got us to this point.Where we will go from here into our future
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My ideal first date is low‑key but full of chemistry. Coffee, or ice cream if you’re not lactose intolerant. I'm not trying to test your digestive bravery on day one. Or we can skip all that and have a little picnic in the park. I’ll bring the sandwiches, you bring the charm. If you’re into wandering around, laughing too much, and maybe letting my dog judge you a tiny bit, we’ll get along just fine.
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