FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Smoking and going for a walk and talking

A situation where we are both relaxed and can engage in something mutual where we can get to know each other and not feel like a job interview

A walk by the river or a simple night of drinks and a good game of pool

How many of these "perfect date" descriptions have we all read by now? :-) How about this... I'll let you assume that my idea of great first date is pretty much the same as yours, and instead of listing what everyone else does, I'll list a few things that we (most likely) would NOT do on a first date. Such as: Organize my garage Meet my Mom Meet Your Mom Go adult "toy" shopping Detail my car See a cockfight Host a cockfight Rent a hotel room Pick out an engagement ring Smoke a Virginia ham Open joint bank accounts Draft a pre-nup Stalk an Ex "Borrow" a police cruiser Go to couples counseling Watch a Kardashian I'm sure there's more.... feel free to let me know what I missed. :-)

How about we switch it up and just go on a weekend vacation to enjoy each other's company and get to know one another ;-). . .

Candle light dinner and any thing r and b music says to do.. Let's both be romantic. Or I'm like water I can flow thru anything. Any thing u want do let's do vibe out and be cool. Just like a summer breeze

someplace where we can enjoy ourselves get to know each other feel comfortable place where we can connect and see where it goes

I never got to do the go out and do the date thing,I was a musician for 16 years, during that time, in relationship for 4yrs. Than single for 16, after the first 8 yrs. tested positive being openly sexual...

Something fun:) Anything active, outdoors, or interactive. Bowling, pool, beach, comedy show.

what ever we decide is fine just be who you are lol

laughing... just having a good time with each other

I like having fun and chilling with like minded people. Positive vibes is a must. Not looking to dive head first into a relationship or anything. I would rather take my time and get to know the person and let things flow.

In town - First meet, would be a vr room for some fun games. We could even meet for liquids prior to this to make sure your not VR'ing with what you deem to be weirdos. If VR isn't your thing, we can do an escape room. Now a date wouldnt be an actual date without food. So this is either at home or at a place of our choosing. Dictating your comfort level of course. Ultimate city date once established would be an escape room or two, then to an exhibit or festival (taboo show? Ice festival?) on e-scooters!, a fine dining experience then we split a themed room for some sensory overload. Yes, your going to have to ask mom to take then kids for a night... or two if she let's you. Outdoors. First meet could be at a lake/river or a camp spot for some BBQ and conversation. Maybe for a night? If your feeling competitive we can bring out the corn hole and ladder ball. If you show us yours, we'll show you ours... camping hacks of course. Who doesn't like a fireplace pop tart, or a smores hybrid dip?! Ultimate outdoor date could be as simple as a week out on a houseboat. Or a cabin retreat to the Okanagan with the spa resort mixed in for a night. We camp often, so if this is your thing we would like to make it alot more enjoyable.

Go out for dinner had a nice restaurant barbecue in your backyard or just a maybe Denny's for breakfast I would rather leave that option to you to decide where to go very easy going easy to please as long as you hold me look into my eyes and tell me hello and give me a great big kiss I haven't been kissing so many years I can just imagine the feeling I'm not a one-night send I want my room I want my soulmate but I can old at night when I go to sleep and wake up to something nice like you looking at me smiling because you're happy smiling yes yes the first meeting I want to leave it up to you to surprise me I'm sure you can think of something beautiful the last a lifetime then you must tell me how you like for me to dress jeans or a real dress let me know please honey this will make all the difference in the world of interesting how you like me to dress that looking how you want me to look

Maybe do something like a dinner or along those lines. Coffee could work as well just somewhere you could talk.

Tri-state Fair Rollerskating Drive in movies Walk in the park

There are so many things I am down to doing and trying. It definitely depends on what the vibe is. Some ideas that interest me are: 1. Grabbing dinner - I'm always interested in trying new places and this allows us to get to know each other in detail. 2. An activity - Topgolf, axe throwing, mini golf, bowling/Arcades. Obviously so I can show you up. 3. Comedy show- What better way to get to know each other then by being our genuine selves?

I think that everything moves at its own pace, I'd like the time to see if we hit it off, not here to waste anyones time, or force something that doesn't feel right. I want the vibes for both of us -coffee somewhere with a view -ice cream at the park. -Dog person so a walk with you and your dog would be awesome

will both decide or choose

Some type activity where we can still talk to learn more about each other. That way our time won't be just about our activities but getting a better feel of each other. Also taking a long walk in the park enjoying nature as we interact.