FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Simple but impactful. Something that's thoughtful and intentful................ Something we'd both enjoy.

My ideal of the first date I want the gentleman to decide. I'm tired of always making the decisions. That's what I've done in my other relationships. I want the man to come up with the ideal date and then if we are compatible, then I'll choose the second one and then down the line we'll choose them together.

I love the water, I love good food but I don't plan I flow. I love to please so I would consider your interest and my own so we can really learn each other.(SPONTANEOUS;)

Anywhere they have nice drinks that we can sit and talk with to get to know one another at ease. I don't drink often but I do have anxiety & ptsd. So it helps a bit.

Swimming. Concerts. Festivals. Carnivals. Eating. Conversing. Movies. Getting lost. Cooking. Roller skating/blading

Let's go on an adventure! Try something new and get out of our comfort zones. Whether it's hiking, trying new food, or traveling somewhere let's have a great time!!

Our first date: I would spend the day getting ready: bathed, hair done, nails clipped, beard trimmed, ears and nose hairs plucked, deloused and perfumed. Try on a couple of outfits. Find the perfect look. Once dressed, I would sit quietly and read until you arrive to pick me up in your hybrid car. You, looking fabulous, greet me at my door with a single flower and a pleasent look of surprise that I clean up so well. You make a sincere apology for being a few minutes early and offer to wait if I need more time. I don't. We exchange a few flattering comments and you ask me if I have any food allergies or special diet preferences. I don't. You take my hand and walk me to your car where you open the door and wait until I'm seated and then you take one more look. The sunlight sparkles in my eyes. You close the door gently and take a deep breath. Then you whisk me away to a little out of the way cafe that you've heard about and have been wanting to try with someone special. We settle down at a corner table and order wine. Some initial chit-chat getting to know more about each other, that one embarrassing story you just have to tell, and more witty banter between us and our wait staff then you lean over and whisper in my ear... Or something like that.

Open to anything outside of the movie theater! How could we have a conversation there? I love to explore.

Maybe we can grab lunch together... A relaxed romantic vibe is nice. Somewhere we can try to bond some.

I will give you a say in where a perfect first date could be. Let's make that choice together, include each other works for me. Ciao.

I'm open to new experiences. Do something we both can enjoy doesn't have to be super expensive. It doesn't have to be cheap.

Our first date would be somewhere we both enjoy. Simple things like dinner, movies and drinks, maybe an arcade, bowling or pool.

Keep it simple - a baseball game, the rodeo, spoken word, a comedy show, a museum, good drinks, your local friendly taco stand or even a Netflix binge.

Long ride on my bike then dinner and a movie or what ever you want to do because I can have fun anywhere.

Just you, me and where ever the convo and vibe leads us. You'd have my undecided attention with my mind, hands, and body on you. You'd love it over here I promise you.

Something that we both can agree upon. Ideally, church, movie, and dinner, maybe bowling. But whatever the lady likes.

Casual dress. Meet, walk around downtown enjoying shops and people watching. Lots of good convo, maybe even snap a few pics. Stop in nice (but not Ruth Chris yet) restaurant and share a meal w more good convo. Maybe go onto roof or terrace for more quiet, private space- have a drink or 2 while star gazing. Follow the stars at that point. Walk back to cars, nice special kiss (if merited). Until next time...

I like to keep it simple and have fun getting to know each other. A walk (I like holding hands) fishing, ballgame, live music--- let's have some fun! if we connect and there's an attraction, the life story will come. Let nature take its course. *** I'm definitely not the coffee shop kind of date

My first date would be going to church and maybe a walk by a lake maybe I can cook dinner and we can have a drink

I’m looking for someone who is genuine, kind, and has a great sense of humor. Someone who values open communication, enjoys exploring new places, and finds joy in the simple things in life. Whether it’s sharing an adventure, a quiet evening, or a deep conversation, I’d love to connect with someone who is confident, curious, and ready to build something meaningful together.