FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

Come on over to my place and we can enjoy a gourmet dinner made with all wholesome natural ingredients. We can watch a movie on the DVD player and makeout.

I love discovering new trails. I live near the park. An awesome first date would be hiking followed by a nice dinner out. I'd probably meet for coffee first before this.

To make sure your knee work and that you can enjoy walks if i decided to start walking just to clear my mind .

Some place that does not greatly distract our attention from each other. Walk the beach, relax in a park, a museum, etc...

Suprise me on where we should go and what we should do. I'll let you take the lead and hopefully we both have a blast with each other.

Go for a walk on the beach or through the woods maybe have a picnic along the way xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

I like to meet and move our bodies somehow. Helps with the nerves. For example, meeting at a trail or dog park and just walk around and get to know each other in a casual, easy,no pressure way. Maybe after we go to a movie and if it feels cool, hold hands in the dark. I want to go slowly getting to know my next lover because I’m hoping he is my guy forever. I'm a total romantic but I probably do not sound like one until I’m sure we are on the same page. I would love to have fun planned dates at restaurants or movies, fires on the beach, meet at a swimming pool, or horseback riding. I'm open. Take me to a gun range? I've never tried it and would like to :). Come to my hip hop class!

Let's go for an easy hike or walk in the park then get a beer at a cozy brewery! Coffee is good too :)

A hike through a nature reserve or a mountain range that ends in an evening of dinner and star gazing.

Dinner :) I enjoy taking someone out and paying as I’ll be inviting you. After dinner, a walk to get ice cream or something relaxing

Hiking in a dog off leash area and the going for some food, or walking to a winery, or chilling st the beach

How about going to a cafe and having a coffee and then taking a walk. Or going hiking in the mountains.

Walking and taking to each other is create a fresh bond between us,and it's very helpful for me.i love chatting

Coffee/tea and chatting. Maybe a shared activity like window shopping or something art/creative related or a nice walk about

A first date needs to be in a setting where conversation can flow easily. A hike/walk works great for me!

Simple is what makes me comfortable. Any setting where we can hear each other speak without too many distractions

Maybe a walk in Central Park with coffee and conversation...on a blanket under a tree and chat like we've known each other forever.

Preferably something free like going to the park, or having a picnic. Walk on the beach. I have lawn chairs in the trunk of my car so anywhere could be good. Pop them bitches out and get to yappin’

A perfect first date is all about simplicity, connection, and creating a space to genuinely get to know someone. Imagine meeting on a beautiful late afternoon, where the golden hour paints everything in warm, soft light. You’ve chosen a scenic, peaceful walking path—perhaps along a lake, through a botanical garden, or a vibrant city park. There’s a natural ease to walking side by side, allowing the conversation to flow as you explore your surroundings together. The air is crisp and invigorating, sparking a feeling of excitement as you exchange stories, laughs, and ideas. You might share your favorite childhood memories, the places you’ve always wanted to visit, or those quirky, endearing habits that make you uniquely you. The rhythm of your steps keeps things light and casual, removing the pressure of prolonged eye contact and allowing you both to relax into the moment. As you wander, small, delightful moments arise—like stopping to admire a flower in bloom, skipping stones across the water, or pausing to watch an artist at work or a street performer entertaining a crowd. These shared experiences become little connections, tiny snapshots of joy that make the date feel natural and unforced. The conversation flows effortlessly between serious topics and playful banter. Maybe you bond over a shared passion for books, music, or food, or laugh about a funny mishap you’ve each had recently. You’re both discovering how the other thinks, dreams, and views the world, letting curiosity guide the experience. Eventually, you reach a cozy café or an inviting bench with a scenic view, where you pause to sit and continue the conversation. The shared walk has already set the tone for comfort and openness, so it feels easy to dive deeper into what matters most to you both. By the end of the date, there’s a lightness in the air—a mutual sense that you’ve connected on a meaningful level, learned something new about each other, and left enough mystery to make you both eager for...

let's go for a hike or anything active. If you're not into that, coffee is good too. I'm looking for someone that is active so any suggestions are welcomed.