FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS

going somewhere to talk, walk around and possibly play board games. Possibly getting drinks or an appetizer. something simple to get to know each other.

How about a round of golf? I play from the reds. I don't take it too seriously. I love being out on the course and having fun!

something fun and interactive where we can talk and really focus on us and getting to know each other.

Roller skating so I can show off all my funky moves (it's not as impressive as I think it is). Then an all you can eat Sushi bar so I can see what you do when we order too much food. We gotta pay for it if we don't eat it, so are you shoving it in your pockets with me? I gotta make sure you're down to ride😎

Either we rock or not simple never forcing anything....................................................

Let's do something fun like any of the following: Go for a hike, axe throwing, roller skating, billiards, darts, archery, arcade!

Let’s get rich together Let’s be happy together Let’s enjoy life together Let’s live together in peace

Lunch or dinner and off to a bit of ax throwing. I do believe it's important to determine how fast I need to run from the beginning :-) of course, bowling is an option. No sharp edges and the balls are pretty difficult to throw. the next date could well be me having the honor of cooking dinner for you while we plan our escape.

Let's go do a fun activity. Bowling, mini golf, maybe an arcade, or even one of those axe throwing places if you're feeling adventurous. Something with no pressure where we can just be ourselves and have fun. I'm not trying to impress you with some fancy dinner where we're sitting across from each other in awkward silence wondering what to say next. I want us to actually DO something together, you know? There's something about a little friendly competition that breaks the ice. We can talk while we're playing, laugh when one of us completely fails at whatever we're doing, and there's no awkward "what do I do with my hands" moments because we're actually occupied. Plus, I get to see your competitive side come out, which tells me a lot more about you than any scripted dinner conversation would. Then afterwards, let's grab a bite to eat. Could be a casual spot, maybe tacos, burgers, pizza, whatever sounds good. Somewhere we can sit down and continue the conversation, recap the highlights of you absolutely destroying me at mini golf or whatever activity we did. I'll probably give you a hard time about it and insist on a rematch, but honestly I'm just looking for an excuse to see you again. The whole point is to keep things light and fun. First dates can be nerve wracking enough without all the formality and pressure. I'd rather we spend time laughing, being a little silly, and actually getting to know each other in a way that feels natural. If we're having a good time and the conversation flows easily while we're trying to knock down bowling pins or sink a hole in one, then that tells me everything I need to know. And if you end up kicking my butt at whatever we're doing? Even better. I can handle it, and we'll have a good story to tell. 😉

getting a bite to eat followed by a fun activity like mini golf or watching a fun sporting event or comedy show.

I adore an arcade! I grew up in arcades and bowling alleys and feel very at home there. I am highly competitive so dont expect me to go easy on you if we go against each other ;)

summer time definitely a motorcycle ride ! winter time I love to go skating I'd have no problem teaching someone even if we fall on our butts that's ok! 😂

I like to do fun activities! I enjoy bowling, axe throwing, mini golf, go karts, billiards. I like to enjoy the sunset by the lake, walking/hiking as well. I do not prefer coffee get togethers it just feels too awkward to me. Let's enjoy a fun activity.

Let's go hiking or do something outdoorsy , out in nature to get to know each other. Something thats not dinner

An Escape room is my favorite social event, maybe go to an open mic night. Go to a naughty movie place!

Honestly. I'm pretty down for whatever. I like doing new things. if it's up to me, a walk on a nature trail, or a night out playing darts.

Let's go golfing. Or do a paint and sip. Listen to music. Talk some shit and have a good time. Life's short. And i feel like it just got shorter...

Let's play pool. Don't let sex be your main topic or focus. If you keep my attention, I'll keep yours

We'll be going for a walk / hike to a beach that I enjoy have a decent picnic and then later go the Field to play soccer bring yo!

Can we just go out for drinks in a casual setting? Maybe shoot pool? I just want to hang out and get to know someone without a lot of pressure