FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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                                                        Meet for lunch, A walk in a public place, a live music event and a visit.  You will need to see me in motion to realize how physiologically young I am.                        
                        
                                                    Category: Live Music / Concerts
                        
                                                    
                        
                        
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                                                        Just talking, sharing our thoughts on a nice walk then many dinner at at a nice quiet restaurant a glass of wine and more conversation.                        
                        
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                                                        An ideal date would be dinner and conversation. Laughing and finding out about this person who has decided to sit across from me                        
                        
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                                                        How about meeting for coffee - something casual and public, or a walk. It would be nice to be able to chat and get to know each other.                        
                        
                                                    Category: Dinner
                        
                                                    
                        
                        
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                                                        We could meet for coffee, tea at a local quiet cafe for a getting acquainted conversation. If all goes well the next move will come naturally. No pressure, just light-hearted interaction and hopefully mutual attraction.                        
                        
                                                    Category: Cafe
                        
                                                    
                        
                        
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                                                        I suggest we meet and greet some where you would feel comfortable and secure.  Like a resturant?  Personally I like moca...  Since I am not a premium member yet, y :-)Perhaps a short walk in the park.  I look forward to visiting with you as soon a practical.  If we don't hit it off so to speak, at least we tried and we will have a memory to savor ......................                        
                        
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                                                        My town home abuts Walnut Creek’s largest Heather Farms Park with its lovely lake and Canadian Geese residents. A cage meeting is fine but another option is a lovely walk around
the Heather Farms lake.                        
                        
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                                                        My Ideal Date Would Be:  A safe, comfortable location where we could smile and laugh at our own stumbles and mistakes, talk about some of our likes and dislikes.  Hopefully plan for another date when we can discuss all those thing’s that should be discussed before the relationship has matured to the point that it’s too late to discuss.  If that has a positive outcome, then we should have a solid foundation for a budding friendship and/or LTR.                        
                        
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                                                        meet for coffee to get to know you..I love to dance, go to movies, walks and chat..                        
                        
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                                                        ME : Meet me for coffee/wine/beer/iced tea/water/anything wet and cold. Of course in a public place. My treat !
You : Are you for real ?
Me : You bet ! I'll meet you, just say where/when. I'm retired.  No drink, drug,smoke; not alcoholic. Widowed.  Health (Vac X 3) and finances ok. have a mutt. Liberal and reasonable-what about that ?  Any deal breakers so far ? It's only for a meet up, right ?  You'll see; I'm the tops.
You : If you are lying to me about any of this, buster ... 
Me : Ok,ok- I know you will have your dog bite me, I get it. Please just show up. And do not assume that I'm desperate. I ain't. 
You : Do you ever have an unspoken thought ?
Me. Rarely.
You : It shows.                        
                        
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                                                        I would love us meet in mid to late-afternoon for an easy weekend walk to simply enjoy our first-meeting and conversation ... followed by our sitting together for an early evening dinner and continuing conversation at a very nice restaurant that you love and choose ... from which all will unfold.  Woody                        
                        
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                                                        Another day in Paradise..Meet up at Panera Bread for coffee and discuss how you stay so youthful at the age of 39?  I just turned 81 and still can't believe my age since I still do most of the stuff I did when younger. My biking is limited to 10-15 miles now. And my weight training is using lweights 50-80 lbs to reduce and slow down muscle atrophy. You must stay active if you're going to enjoy life and retirement. I am surprised that "Like Me" member don't contact me since they must see I'm no longer a member.                        
                        
                                                    Category: Cafe
                        
                                                    
                        
                        
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                                                        For a first date, I would like to meet at a nice restaurant near where you live and you trust. I like restaurants near water .. ocean, lake, creek... After lunch, I would suggest we take a nice walk.. along the water.                        
                        
                                                    Category: Lunch
                        
                                                    
                        
                        
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                                                        Im very cautious with people..so in a public setting is the most important thing to me. With my dog for the first meeting is even better for safety.
And starting off as friends with no pressure and just going with the flow is also important. 
But in general, Im low maintenance and easy to please                        
                        
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                                                        Conversation to explore fit of values and expectations.  Please look at my profile here to learn a bit about me.                        
                        
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