FIRST DATE IDEAS FROM MEMBERS
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My Ideal Date
My ideal date is all about romance, laughter, and genuine effort. I love a man who’s chivalrous — the kind who’ll show up with my favorite flowers or maybe even a little plant to help me grow my herb garden. It’s the thoughtful gestures that mean the most.
I’m an outdoorsy kind of woman, so anything outside — from paintball shooting to a simple walk or adventure — sounds perfect to me. I’m tired of being cooped up in the house, so let’s get out and have some fun!
When it comes to the date itself, I’d love a man who takes the lead and picks up the bill — I handle enough of those on my own. We can go out to eat anywhere; I’m definitely not shy when it comes to food (so I hope your wallet can handle it, lol — just kidding!). I’m not too fancy, so no need for anything extravagant.
And one more thing — be on time! It shows respect, and that means a lot to me. A simple, thoughtful, and genuine date is all I need to have a great time.
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Keep it simple with coffee or smoothies and the let the vibe take control of the rest. A simple yes or no makes it easy.
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That I forget that we’re even on a date because the conversation and reciprocation of energy has engrossed us to the point it’s only us two in the entire world in that given moment .
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Let's take a long walk around the park or we can dance the night away. Somewhere we can both get lose track of time.
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Something easy but intentional — great food, good energy, and a little time to see if our vibe feels natural.
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Go out to eat somewhere cool maybe watch a movie at a movie theater or we can take it back home and watch it at home I like to go to comedy clubs I'm a very big fan of amusement parks as well. I also like to have staycations at nice hotels around the area, but honestly, I am very open to trying new thingsso let me know what you wanna do and we can make something happen.
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Anything outside if the weather is nice a hike. Dinner or coffee Honestly whatever you want to do I should probably be pushed out of my comfort zone
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Something chill, coffee and a beach walk or something active and fun! Ideally less focused around alcohol and more focused on real connection
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Tea, shots, spliff… whatever you prefer to loosen the mood, a genuine conversation that gets past the meat and potatoes.
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Something cheap, I need to see who you are and if you’re worth my time, yall out here playing and I ain’t got time for it.
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No idea until we both decide what we want or where we wanna be our date and it must be comfortable for us both. No force no pressure
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An actual date like it was before technology and before. I love sports and I love music but also enjoy a nice home cooked meal and a movie!
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I believe the best connections are built through shared experiences, conversation and laughter! Let’s try something fun like mini-golf, a cooking class or something simple like sharing a cup of coffee together.
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Something simple like coffee and danishes at a cafe so it’s public and we can talk and bullshit and people watch
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We collab our spotifys for the ride to the flea market, followed by a couple little treats at a dive.
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We start somewhere quiet — a tucked-away wine bar or vibey lounge where we can actually hear each other talk. No pressure, just real energy and good conversation.
After that? Maybe a rooftop dinner or a city walk under lights — something with intention, not routine. I’ll plan it. You just enjoy.
I believe in presence, comfort, and making sure you feel seen — not just entertained.
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Quiet dinner where we can chat and get to know each other, maybe a walk after. Mini golf, boat ride, kayak pretty much whatever we are in the mood for we shall do! I'm not too picky on the dates as long as both people are happy.
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I like first dates with a bit of activity. A walk, mini golf, or anything that keeps the energy moving and the conversation easy.
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My ideal date would be an indoor movie night where we cook together and cuddled up on the couch with each other
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