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When it comes to relationships, there’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all approach. You might be looking for commitment and emotional security, or maybe you’re more interested in fun, flirty, casual dating. Perhaps you're still figuring things out and don’t want to be boxed into a definition at all.
At PositiveSingles, we understand that relationship goals are as unique as the people who pursue them. Whether you're searching for lasting love, casual connections, or meaningful conversations with no pressure, this is a place where every relationship type is welcomed, respected, and encouraged.
And the best part? Everyone on our platform shares one important thing in common—they understand what it's like to live with an STD.
We created PositiveSingles to support people with herpes, HPV, HIV, and other STDs not just in dating, but in life. That means providing a safe, inclusive space to express who you are—and what you want in a partner or connection—without judgment.
Rather than forcing everyone into traditional molds, we embrace relationship diversity. Our members aren't all here for the same reasons—and that's a strength, not a flaw. PositiveSingles celebrates people who know exactly what they want, as well as those who are still exploring.
Here’s a breakdown of the relationship types people pursue on our platform:
Many members of PositiveSingles are looking for serious, monogamous relationships. These users desire emotional depth, trust, and mutual support, often looking for a husband/wife for marriage or to start a family. They’re looking for someone to grow with—someone who understands the challenges of dating with a sexually transmitted infection and is willing to build a life together, regardless.
Whether you’ve just come through a difficult breakup or you’re ready to find “the one,” PositiveSingles offers filters and profile options that make it easy to connect with like-minded people.
Examples of long-term goals:
Not everyone wants—or needs—a forever partner. Some people are in a transition phase, others are traveling, and some simply enjoy the experience of meeting new people without serious expectations. PositiveSingles allows you to be upfront about wanting something short-term, fun, and pressure-free.
This kind of relationship can still be respectful, honest, and deeply meaningful—just not necessarily long-lasting.
Common short-term dating preferences:
Let’s be honest: dating while managing an STI can feel isolating at times. That’s why so many members of PositiveSingles start by looking for real friendship. Whether you’re newly diagnosed and need someone who gets it, or you just want to connect on a platonic level, this is a place where understanding is built-in.
Many deep, lifelong relationships start with friendship—and some stay there, just as powerfully.
Friendship might mean:
You don’t always need a deep emotional bond to enjoy someone’s company. If you’re feeling confident and playful, casual dating or hookups can offer a fun way to explore chemistry, have a good time, and stay open to whatever may come next.
We believe that desire is normal, healthy, and human—especially when approached responsibly and respectfully.
Sometimes you just don’t know what you want until you find it. No-label dating is ideal for people who prefer to let things unfold naturally, without forcing titles or expectations. These relationships are based on connection first, with the rest defined as you go.
This approach works well for people who are emotionally mature, curious, or embracing flexibility in how they love.
Already in a committed relationship but ethically exploring new connections? Open relationships are becoming more popular and widely accepted. On PositiveSingles, you'll discover singles and couples interested in threesome dating who are upfront about their open status and eager to connect with others who share similar values.
Open relationships rely on honesty, communication, and shared understanding—all values deeply respected in our community.
If you believe that love can be shared openly with more than one partner, polyamory may be the relationship structure that suits you best. We welcome polyamorous individuals and communities who seek deep, meaningful relationships built on consent and communication.
You can clearly indicate this preference in your profile and connect with others who feel the same.
Not every relationship needs to be about romance or sex. Some members are looking for companionship, emotional bonding, or someone to share their daily experiences with—without expectations. This kind of connection can be especially important for people living with chronic conditions or those re-entering the dating world.
To help members navigate and define their ideal connection, we’ve designed features that support every type of relationship journey:
What truly sets PositiveSingles apart is the understanding that you don’t have to explain your diagnosis—everyone here already gets it. That common ground creates space for real relationships to grow, without the burden of shame or secrecy.
Whether you want one person, multiple partners, or just to feel seen and heard, our platform respects your preferences. You’re not judged for wanting casual fun, and you’re not pressured to rush into something serious. Here, every connection is valid.
Whether you’re looking for commitment, companionship, a sexual connection, or just someone to chat with over coffee, PositiveSingles offers a place to explore all of it—at your pace, on your terms.
This is your journey. Define it your way.
Ready to find your connection—serious, casual, or undefined? Join PositiveSingles today and meet people who truly understand.