More Privacy Features Than Any Other Dating Sites
Extra Premium Days with FUPS
Herpes and STD Community for Dating, Friendship, Care and Support Since 2001
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Extra Premium Days with FUPS
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PositiveSingles started back in 2001 as a herpes dating site for people living with HSV and other STD-related conditions. Over time, it has grown into a community of more than 2.7 million members worldwide, focused on privacy, trust, and helping people connect more comfortably.
For new users upgrading to a Premium membership, the official referral code is FUPS. Enter it during registration, and extra Premium membership days are added after payment.
Bonus structure:
It doesn't change what Premium includes. It simply gives more time to use it.
During registration, you'll see a field labeled “Referral Code (Optional)”. That's where FUPS should be entered.
Once the account is created and Premium is activated, the bonus is automatically applied based on the selected plan.
Simple flow:
Make sure the code is entered before completing checkout.
There are two ways to use the platform. Most people start with Standard first, then decide later if upgrading is the right step.
Standard membership lets users browse profiles, explore the community, and send light interactions like likes or winks.
It's usually enough at the beginning just to see how things feel and who is active on the platform.
Messaging is limited, and that becomes more noticeable once conversations start to matter.
Premium removes those limits and opens up full communication:
This is the version where conversations can continue without interruption.
Most people don't upgrade just for features. It usually happens at a simple moment — when they want to continue a conversation without limits getting in the way.
Browsing profiles is easy. But once messages start to matter, Standard membership can feel a bit restrictive.
That's usually where Premium becomes useful.
Some people stay on Standard for a while to explore. Others upgrade earlier when they feel ready to connect more directly.
It really depends on timing.
The referral code FUPS simply adds extra time to the Premium membership after upgrade.
Since Premium is mainly used for messaging and ongoing conversations, that extra time gives more flexibility.
It usually means:
Nothing changes in features — it just extends usage time.
You can use PositiveSingles across desktop, mobile, and app environments.
Messages and activity stay synced in real time, so switching devices doesn't interrupt ongoing conversations.
We include privacy tools designed to help members stay in control of their experience:
These features run quietly in the background, but they matter once you start actively using the platform.
Since 2001, we've stayed focused on the herpes and STD dating space, offering a place where people don't need to explain everything from the beginning.
Some members are here for dating. Others are here just to talk or connect with people who understand their situation.
Both happen naturally over time.
Many members mention that it feels easier to start conversations here.
Not because everything is perfect, but because people already understand the context.
Some are looking for relationships, others for companionship or support. Over time, conversations tend to feel more natural compared to general dating apps.
It's less about pressure, more about understanding.
If you feel ready to start connecting, you can begin by creating a PositiveSingles account and entering FUPS during registration.
After upgrading to Premium membership, the bonus days are added automatically based on your selected plan.
Everything is set up once your account is active.
Take your time and explore things at your own pace.