She contacted me through Positive Singles. We both like to race bicycles which is a lifestyle unto its own. We have been dating and enjoying learning about each other. The more we talk the more I realize that we a lot in common.
I joined here hopeless in desperation. I had somebody try to connect with me for a month before I gave in and wrote back. I'm so happy that I took a chance and I am super happy with my wife. I just want to say thank U to PS for giving us a 2nd chance at not just love but at life.
This website is really great. I met and dated some really nice ladies on here including the woman who is now the love of my life. We are looking forward to a wonderful life together. Thank you PS for this great site.
I have been WOWed by a great guy I met through this site.
We are from different states , me from Massachusetts , he from Iowa, What started with a photo request from him, has turned into something I quite remarkable.
I have not dated much since my divorce from the man that lied to me by omission and gave me HSV2 seven years ago. I have not wanted to deal with telling anyone I have it or getting hurt more so I just lived life alone. I'd been hurt enough. But this man recently was very persistent. I told him NO several times when he asked me out, but then I finally gave in. We got along great and I really liked him and dreaded having 'the conversation'. BUt i knew it was something I had to do; either he can accept me as I am or he's not the right person for me.
I refused to do anything intimate with him until I told him, and just told him "i wanted to take things slow' as an excuse until i worked up the nerve to tell him about my HSV2. Plus i wanted to be sure he really got to know me before I told him so he could weigh the risks vs. the benefits.SO I finally told him, and he really wasn't phased. He didn't care at all, can you imagine?? HE said he was IN LOVE with me, and if it wasn't something that would kill him, that he'd deal with it and didn't care.
And since then we haven't talked about it or looked back. I told him if he ever has any questions to please tell me, but he hasn't said anything since, and that was 3 months ago. I don't have many breakouts and am on daily Valtrex (trying NOT to infect him), and he won't even use condoms. Says he just loves me and doesn't care. And he was happy to finally figure out why I kept saying NO to dating him at the beginning.
I never thought someone would take it so well. So my advice would be to REALLY let someone get to know you first and fall in LOVE with you. Wait a little while until you have 'the conversation'. Tell them you want to take it slow. They need to know the real YOU and be able to decide if you are worth the risk or not. If they reject you, then they weren't the one for you and were just looking for sex. IT's actually a really good 'test' if you want to think about this in a good way. WHen you tell them, just be very matter of fact. Don't CRY or make it overly negative. "Yea it sucks, but it happened to me and it's really not that big of a deal" and just give the facts. I even printed an article for him to read.
I think I found the one,,, good luck to you all.
Met the most amazing guy on this site. I was almost ready to give up on ps, but I'm so glad I didn't because I couldn't be happier. He's someone I would have dated if we hadn't shared this situation, but I'm so grateful for ps. Had it not been for our circumstances, I think I would have missed out on meeting the partner of my dreams.
I met a beautiful woman on this site in September of 2011. Although she lives 7 hours from each other, we found a way to make it work. Love works! Please, keep the faith and believe that even if separated by a significant distance love will find a path.
This site gave me hope. There is POWER in hope! Please don't give up.
We met on the site and conversed for a while. Later we met in person went on our first date. We have been inseparable. Many might be oppose to social media dating but regardless of whichever site you are a member it really does work. Don't loose hope and be optimistic.
I met my husband on this site and we are very happy. We were both about to give up and as I was going to delete my profile. But just one last chance and I found the man that I always dreamed of.....for real! One wink is all it took ;)
We first emailed each other through PS for about a week. We exchanged numbers and started talking over the phone. Our conversations were great, we talked about everything. One night while I was in Memphis attending a convention, we talked until 5am! I don't think either one of us wanted to get off the the phone that day even though we were very tired.
I came to her town one weekend because a very close friend of mine was having a surprise birthday party, so we made plans to go bowling and meet up for the very first time. We met and had a great time bowling then we went to dinner. We talked a little more during dinner and I knew then that she was someone I really wanted to be with.
It's been a year now and everything has been great. I was given the opportunity to hire on with another company which gave me the chance to move to her town. So far everything has been such a blessing. No plans for wedding bells just yet but I'm 99.9% sure that she will be the one I will get down on one knee for. I truly love her.
Thank you so much for creating this site. It makes getting back into dating so much easy.
Good luck to everyone out there looking for their mate. If I found mine then I'm sure you will find yours.
I found the man I have been looking for all my life! I never would have thought something that I thought ruined my life, has allowed me to find someone who brings me 100% joy!! I have never been happier!
It is a wonderful success story thanks to your sight! She lives in AZ I live in TN. And if your looking for tips just read my profile where it say my idea about my perfect match or I can't actually remember what section that was. Also I would like to get a copy of what I wrote because it was profound and what got my girls attention. How do I go about that since I closed my acct? and also i can answer more of your questions I'm short on time right now. Thank you very for everything!!!!!!!
We talked for a week then met and we had everything in common, so we both hid our profile then decided to delete it so we can be together. Both of our profiles said that we were compatible with eachother so that was very accurate. he lives an hour away so we met at citywalk and he met my friends [ a neutral place in case we didnt like eachother].
We are together and do want to get married and have kids so we will see what happens.....
Both her and I know we are INSANE to be this in love after a few days......don't get me wrong. However, we both know Jesus Christ as our center of core values, so we are not totally in the blind.
She sent me a note, we were both new members and she is newly afflicted. I was really just encouraging her, thinking she is so new to this and the heartbreak that she wasn't relationship material.
I am grateful for PS bringing us together........but the success of it all is really about timing and chemistry. Your site is just right for me, it's not too pretentious, like match.com. Not full of goldiggers like match, and I met several other women before my Lady, much more solid and sincere contacts I think, than match.com.
I really don't know how you would improve what PS delivers. Match may have more window dressing...... You have reality, I think.
Before joining this site, I was skeptical of the whole notion that love could be found on the internet, or in everyday life. I have always thought that there was someone for everyone, and that everything in life happens for a reason no matter how bad it may seem. I originally started talking to Stephanie on this site, but we quickly moved to text messaging. We sent nearly 1,000 text messages in just under two months and then she agreed to actually meet me! I was so nervous, but as soon as I saw her, I felt so much more at ease. We sat and had dinner and a few drinks and a lot of laughs until the place was closing and we were the last two people in there. This has never happened to me! Today, we are finding that we are so much alike and falling a little bit more in love with every passing hour.
Without this site none of this would have been possible. She is an answer to my prayers, and when I look into her beautiful brown eyes, I see a large portion of myself, which makes me love her even more! Thank you guys for creating a site in which I could find my angel!
Just wanted to tell you. I met a wonderful man who were only 18 miles apart. I have talked a lot and been out. Twice and get along so good. I did not think I would find someone. Best 30 I ever spent. Thank you teri and mick. Just keep trying,it works,be honest and yourself.
yes. We have pvoirsionally set a date for april 7th (as its half way between mine and hers birthday)..I speak to her every night, and I am flying back over to her in a weeks time. For a month. She is the one I have been looking for. And I had given up and so had she.
Before joining this site, I was skeptical of the whole notion that love could be found on the internet, or in everyday life. I have always thought that there was someone for everyone, and that everything in life happens for a reason no matter how bad it may seem. I originally started talking to Stephanie on this site, but we quickly moved to text messaging. We sent nearly 1,000 text messages in just under two months and then she agreed to actually meet me! I was so nervous, but as soon as I saw her, I felt so much more at ease. We sat and had dinner and a few drinks and a lot of laughs until the place was closing and we were the last two people in there. This has never happened to me! Today, we are finding that we are so much alike and falling a little bit more in love with every passing hour. Without this site none of this would have been possible. She is an answer to my prayers, and when I look into her beautiful brown eyes, I see a large portion of myself, which makes me love her even more! Thank you guys for creating a site in which I could find my angel!