After meeting many incompatible men on this site who despite what they said, were after one thing, I've met someone who exhibits all of the qualities I'd been looking for in a match. Physically, he may not have matched my normal choices but his heart and treatment of me soon helped me realize that there are way more important things in life than looks. He accepts me and loves me as I am and I give him the same. I have HSV1 and he 2. But none of that matters. I finally feel "normal" again and will never have to have that stupid "Talk" again. Ladies and good men actually seeking love: Don't give up. There are good men and women on this site who are honest and morally upright. Don't accept less than what you deserve!!!