After 5 years of this dating crap have met someone truly special! Was getting very discouraged from what I have been meeting over the years and finally met someone with the same interest, kind and not just looking for one thing. He is looking for the last relationship also and we just met last week and it is like we have known each other for a long time. I know how frustrating this whole process is but hopefully eventually most everyone will meet that one person like I finally did! Thank you so much POS!
We met last Thursday after talking the night before and e-mailing for about 3 to 4 days prior. I was smitten upon meeting him and have met a lot of people over the last 5 years that I don't even remember who they are but at least 50 and know it is more. Got to the point of listing H on normal sites with my photo just to weed out the asses just looking for one thing and my favorite quote became NEXT! Have had to tell some if they didn't quit bothering me the next phone call was going to the police and would never let anyone know where I lived. It can be a scary experience these days, hadn't had sex in over 2 1/2 years tired of being used and not wanting to catch worse. I see a real future with this person and can't stand being away from him and he feels the same way. Most people are so screwed up at this dating age and don't think there is anything you can do differently on the site, like how I was contacted a about 3 years ago from someone on this site about the POS facebook group. That is a great way for people to talk to one another and get together for fun, have known people that said that they are glad to have gotten H because they have met so many nice people that they didn't have in their lives before. I know of an old girlfriends brother that I've known since I was 12 that we saw each other on here and he is so much happier than he was about 5 years ago after getting divorced and before finding this group. He says he wouldn't give up having H because he has more of a life now with good people. It is such a shame that there is so much stigma associated with this and I too would not have met an incredible person had I not had it either.
There are plans of committing to one another in the future but marriage don't know. Have been married twice and both took me through bankruptcy through their debt and saying I do I had to go through it also. We will see as time goes by but am just so happy to have met him. I have a 15 yr old son also and that has been the main concern to me over the years of this dating nightmare and he is great with him. So don't know what to tell you to improve the site, it is what it is! Most are just looking to hook up and then on to the next person. They are on all the different sites incognito and hopefully they tell their partner what they have. Just glad to be done with whole nightmare of a process and looking forward to our future. Thank you for bringing us together, was beginning to think it would never happen.