I have been HIV positive for nearly 20 years. I’ve used the sight on and off for about ten. I have dated men who aren’t HI V positive and even married one but when things go badly the always use the virus as a weapon, threaten to tell family or friends or even my job. In one case the man told my brother who no longer talks to me. For this reason I prefer to be in a relationship with someone who understands and respects both myself and my condition.
I met Steve on positive singles in early June 2020. He lives in Washington state and I live on the other side of the country in Vermont. I didn’t expect anything to come of our conversation because he’s so far away ( as is everyone) . I had only activated my membership for one month and it was a few days before my membership was about to expire so I agreed to give him my phone number and he called me right away. He came to visit me July 3rd and then again a couple of weeks later. We are definitely in love and we talk often about him moving to Vermont . It’s been less than 3 months and our lives are forever changed. We would rather not have our photos used for public use be we do appreciate our experience .