Today, a year ago I sent him a wink and a message. I wasn't to sure whether or not he would respond, but I was optimistic. He responded that night, we met when in a week and fell in love. I found the love of my life on this site and I'm truly thankful to this success story.
Advice to other members:
Don't give up, hang in there. There are many people like you that are looking for the same things in life. Have hope!