After 4 unsuccessful dates and 2 other unsuccessful attempts at meeting someone after we talked for a while, I finally found someone that our chemistry is on par. We've been seeing each other for about a month now and im not only attracted physically to this person, but on an emotional level as well and the feeling is mutual. It took almost 6 months being on the site to find her, but I finally did. I was a premium member as well. I guess my biggest piece of advice is to be genuinely you, be persistent and don't give up. I hope to never have to download this app again because I want this to last. Thank you for giving people in my situation hope.